Many people with Crohns deal with this but are apprehensive about discussing it.
I don't think she should have done that.I gave birth to my son, c-section. Waking up, a few hours later, finally, got to hold my baby. Suddenly, the urge was upon me, what do I do with the baby, where is the toilet, what do I do? I put the baby onto the bed, used the commode next to the bed, and wham! Next thing I new, the sister came in, saw what happened, scolded me thoroughly, lifted the baby and told me I was not going to be able to see him the rest of the day! I also realized it was a large ward of mothers with the new babies. It was a situation I could not control, naturally the sister never had children, so, I knew she would not understand.