- Location
- Yonkers, NY
Hi All,
So just recently many of your know that I've been going through withdrawal from my pain medication after surgery.
I have been out of work for months now-I was laid off at the end of December due to Hurricane Sandy-and cannot support myself right now as you are not allowed to collect unemployment while on disability-which I will be on until March 14th.
My parents have had to support me monetarily during this time. They've had to pay for my medications, food, any hospital bills, etc.
As they have been doing this, they have been holding these things over my head like bait. I already suffer from severe anxiety due to my illness & depression-that I was diagnosed with at 21, but I literally feel trapped.
My mom will literally call me up and scream at me and call me horrible names. Every single time she does it, I go into full panic mode and don't know how to handle it. I try to take deep breathes and walk away from it, but she sends me emails/facebook messages/gets my siblings to turn against me. Tells me I'll amount to nothing.
My Dad is even worse.
I guess my question is, when you're waiting for your disability to clear, how can I get them to stop doing this to me? I just feel like I am completely lost with nothing.
I am lucky to have the support of my fiance-but his job at the moment cannot cover both of our expenses. It is just such a hard time.
Sometimes I feel like I'm going to break-and going through withdrawal at the same time makes it 100% worse.
Thanks for any response.
So just recently many of your know that I've been going through withdrawal from my pain medication after surgery.
I have been out of work for months now-I was laid off at the end of December due to Hurricane Sandy-and cannot support myself right now as you are not allowed to collect unemployment while on disability-which I will be on until March 14th.
My parents have had to support me monetarily during this time. They've had to pay for my medications, food, any hospital bills, etc.
As they have been doing this, they have been holding these things over my head like bait. I already suffer from severe anxiety due to my illness & depression-that I was diagnosed with at 21, but I literally feel trapped.
My mom will literally call me up and scream at me and call me horrible names. Every single time she does it, I go into full panic mode and don't know how to handle it. I try to take deep breathes and walk away from it, but she sends me emails/facebook messages/gets my siblings to turn against me. Tells me I'll amount to nothing.
My Dad is even worse.
I guess my question is, when you're waiting for your disability to clear, how can I get them to stop doing this to me? I just feel like I am completely lost with nothing.
I am lucky to have the support of my fiance-but his job at the moment cannot cover both of our expenses. It is just such a hard time.
Sometimes I feel like I'm going to break-and going through withdrawal at the same time makes it 100% worse.
Thanks for any response.