Hello everyone,
i'm not sure if this is the right website or the right forum to pose this sort of question, but honestly - i don't know where else to ask.
i have a small hole beside my anus.
it is not open, bloody or infected.
i can only assuming it is the result of anal sex (i was last sexually active about 2-3 months ago.)
i met with a surgeon who examined me, and treated me for an anal fissure.
it healed, and i went for a colonoscopy to ensure i did not have any other issues going on. I was cleared of any health complications.
initially, i felt relieved - but now, upon re-examining myself, i can see that i still have the secondary 'hole'. again - it is not bloody. it is not infected.
the only way i can describe it is to imagine that the soft tissue of/around the anus was indented, and it healed with the imprint - instead of 'bouncing back' to it's original structure.
i am a young gay male with very limited sexual experience. i am worried that further sex will make my symptoms worse, or that i will experience shame in the bedroom.
now, i know this is more an issue of self esteem than of health, but i want to see if anyone has any experience with this.
what did you do?
is there surgery available to fix this?
if not - how did you talk about your situation with further partners?
(this question is open to anyone dealing with 'down-there' problems and intercourse)
have you or anyone on this website heard anything similar to my story?
anything helps.
thanks.
- k
i'm not sure if this is the right website or the right forum to pose this sort of question, but honestly - i don't know where else to ask.
i have a small hole beside my anus.
it is not open, bloody or infected.
i can only assuming it is the result of anal sex (i was last sexually active about 2-3 months ago.)
i met with a surgeon who examined me, and treated me for an anal fissure.
it healed, and i went for a colonoscopy to ensure i did not have any other issues going on. I was cleared of any health complications.
initially, i felt relieved - but now, upon re-examining myself, i can see that i still have the secondary 'hole'. again - it is not bloody. it is not infected.
the only way i can describe it is to imagine that the soft tissue of/around the anus was indented, and it healed with the imprint - instead of 'bouncing back' to it's original structure.
i am a young gay male with very limited sexual experience. i am worried that further sex will make my symptoms worse, or that i will experience shame in the bedroom.
now, i know this is more an issue of self esteem than of health, but i want to see if anyone has any experience with this.
what did you do?
is there surgery available to fix this?
if not - how did you talk about your situation with further partners?
(this question is open to anyone dealing with 'down-there' problems and intercourse)
have you or anyone on this website heard anything similar to my story?
anything helps.
thanks.
- k