Hi Topperdoy,
I'm so sorry to hear that your son is not well! I can certainly imagine how upsetting and frustrating this is to your son and your family!
I have no experience with medications to share with you
however, do have experience with the Enteral Nutrition (EN) that Dusty mentioned above. My son was diagnosed last year, 16 years old, and his only treatment has been EN. It has taken him into remission (or, at least, is controlling his inflammation/symptoms). It is a nutritional formula with anti-inflammatory properties and has success at inducing remission comparable to steroids - with NO negative side effects. My understanding is that it works best if the inflammation is located in the small intestine. However, even if your son's disease is located elsewhere, the EN will provide him with all the necessary nutrition and will give his intestinal system a rest (it is formulated to be very easily digested). It is not as commonly used in the US but is very commonly used elsewhere - reasoning may be patient compliancy as it usually entails 6 weeks of no food, formula only (sometimes clear fluids are allowed, ie broth). As mentioned, can be ingested orally (shakes) or through an NG tube overnight (as my son does). However, as your son is already on Remicade, perhaps he can continue with his diet and also the EN (I have read of this as well). You will find lots of info on EN on either this subforum or in the Treatment subforum. I'm also happy to try to answer any questions.
Another treatment you may want to look into is Low Dose Naltrexone (LDN). Again, this treatment is not commonly offered as the drug was initially developed for other uses and is used for crohns 'off-label' (I believe that's the term??? :blush
. However, there are a number of members on this forum who have had success with LDN and, again, has minimal side effects. You can also find lots on info on LDN both on this subforum and the Treatment forum.
I hope you are able to find a resolution to your son's symptoms; I am so sorry that he has had to put his life on 'hold' as he tries to find appropriate treatment. :confused2:
There are many wonderful parents and members here who are always happy to offer their support and experience. :ghug: