Hi I'm finding it all too much at the mo my colleague got murdered last month I can't get through this it's all too much. I miss him so much work isn't the same he used to joke to me all the time and make me laugh. Now I have to accept that he's never coming bk it's all too much. Death is hard too deal with without it being this tragic and sudden. I've also got the hospital in 3 weeks to see surgeon I said to my mate I will let him know how I get on. Now this has happened and I can't it's so weird and strange. I won't ever get through this. I nearly died myself a yr next month if it wasn't for the surgeons.