Hello to all, Sorry if this in in the wrong forum. I was just reading some of the comments of Crohn's patients on what to say and what NOT to say. I am the wife of a 76 year old husband who has Crohn's disease since age 22 when he had a small bowel resection. He was not given a diagnosis of a long life but I guess he fooled the docs! BUT it has been a miserable 56 years for him and an emotional roller coaster for both of us. I love my husband but sometimes the well is dry. It is very hard to live with this disease for him and for me. I did benefit from reading some of your comments on what to say and what not to say. I would marry him all over again because in spite of this disease and the emotional up and downs, he is a great husband. I look forward to being on the forum and reading about your experiences. He just keeps losing weight and nothing seems to help anymore. Colonoscopy normal as well as all blood work. He was unable to take Imuran, felt much worse on that!