Hi everyone,
I don't know what to do, my wife really wants a child but I am not very keen on the idea. I have recently found out I have Fibro my IBD is poorly controlled at the best of times. My concern is I am not fit enough to look after a Child. I am not working at the moment, and I see a child as just increasing stress. I can barely look after myself let alone another person.
The other half I'm afraid is only looking at it through rose tinted spectacles, she seems to think its going to be plane sailing and we can survive on her wage alone.
I think its going to limit my quality of life even further and hers too plus I think its unfair to bring a child into a situation like that. Then I have her dropping nasty comments every 5 mins about so and so has a baby and they are fine. Im like so and so does not have a chronic relapsing illness.
Im struggling with depression now as well and the tension at home keeps brining suicidle thoughts into my head, I kind of wish they had let me die last august instead.
I have tried to discuss it numerous times but it just ends with her crying. My only solution i can come up with its time to end my relationship
I don't know what to do, my wife really wants a child but I am not very keen on the idea. I have recently found out I have Fibro my IBD is poorly controlled at the best of times. My concern is I am not fit enough to look after a Child. I am not working at the moment, and I see a child as just increasing stress. I can barely look after myself let alone another person.
The other half I'm afraid is only looking at it through rose tinted spectacles, she seems to think its going to be plane sailing and we can survive on her wage alone.
I think its going to limit my quality of life even further and hers too plus I think its unfair to bring a child into a situation like that. Then I have her dropping nasty comments every 5 mins about so and so has a baby and they are fine. Im like so and so does not have a chronic relapsing illness.
Im struggling with depression now as well and the tension at home keeps brining suicidle thoughts into my head, I kind of wish they had let me die last august instead.
I have tried to discuss it numerous times but it just ends with her crying. My only solution i can come up with its time to end my relationship
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