Hi habbymomma,
I'm so sorry your son is having a tough time!!! :ymad: It's so tough and unfair that they have to deal with these problems and overcome the treatment challenges!! :ghug: My son was diagnosed just shy of 17, and he did EN for six weeks (May-July 2011) and it has continued to be his maintenance treatment (no meds) at 1/2 dose plus a regular diet!!
Please read the thread Dusty linked above. I won't repeat all the same info that applies to my son, Stephen, but will try to give just a bit more info (sorry, have to run in a few minutes but will come back on tonight if you need more info before tomorrow...).
- make sure the NG tube they used for your son was 6-Fr, apparently this is infant-sized, so very thin but has done the job for my son for over a year!!
- my son inserts and removes the tube each day. Although he learned to do it fairly easily (and, everyone is different!), if your son can learn to do it, let him know that within a week or two, it was literally taking my son only seconds to do in the evening.
- My son has the choice of drinking shakes, his preference 100% is to use the tube - no bother drinking something he doesn't like and no bother needing to drink a 'minimum' amount! He has also taken the tube with him for an MRE to use to drink the contrast fluid (it is truly that easy for him to now insert the tube!).
- My son regained 10 lbs while doing exclusive EN, and then another 20 when he reintroduced foods. He has recently been interested in 'bulking' up his muscles (a 'guy' thing
) and truly believes (right or wrong??) that the minerals/vitamins he is ingesting (due to the easily absorbed forumula) every day is what has helped him 'bulk' up so quickly (this may be a 'motivator' for your son
).
- His symptoms and diagnosis are already so very much for your son to accept and deal with, so I don't want to encourage you to put more 'pressure' on him but, do make sure he understands that the alternative will be steroids, which will come with its own side-effects that he will probably not like. (EN does have its own hardships - if he has it overnight, there will be some hunger to deal with during the day
but, really, if he can learn to insert the tube, that truly will become the easiest part!)
- Unlike steroids, which cannot be quit if he decides he doesn't like the side effects (steroids must be tapered down over time), if he tries EN a bit longer, he can always go to the steroids, if necessary.
I'm sorry if this post seems jumpy - trying to get as much in as I can in a few minutes :redface:... Please feel free to ask any questions and I will look to see if I can answer any questions for you later.
Good luck!!! :ghug: