- Location
- Hertfordshire, UK
Hi
So I do appreciate this will only be applicable to a few of us here (those of us with permanent stomas) but I would like to hear from anyone who has a stoma, if they ever think about how their stoma will impact upon their life, when they're a lot older.
As a nurse, I come across a number of elderly patients with stomas, who for a whole host of reasons, are not able to care for themselves and consequently their stomas. And so they're completely reliant upon care givers to help manage their stoma needs. I turn forty in January and I do, on occasion, find myself contemplating my later life with a stoma. I guess being a nurse makes me more aware of the care and assistance I would hope to receive.
So, I'm wondering how you guys feel about your future with a stoma. Do you not really give it much thought, and are you more focused on today? Do you even think about how your life will play out, in the later years with a stoma? Are you concerned about it? How do you feel?
Thanks : )
So I do appreciate this will only be applicable to a few of us here (those of us with permanent stomas) but I would like to hear from anyone who has a stoma, if they ever think about how their stoma will impact upon their life, when they're a lot older.
As a nurse, I come across a number of elderly patients with stomas, who for a whole host of reasons, are not able to care for themselves and consequently their stomas. And so they're completely reliant upon care givers to help manage their stoma needs. I turn forty in January and I do, on occasion, find myself contemplating my later life with a stoma. I guess being a nurse makes me more aware of the care and assistance I would hope to receive.
So, I'm wondering how you guys feel about your future with a stoma. Do you not really give it much thought, and are you more focused on today? Do you even think about how your life will play out, in the later years with a stoma? Are you concerned about it? How do you feel?
Thanks : )