Thank you all for your responses. It means a lot to me that people care enough to give advice and try to help in these situations.
Busy- it feels a lot like that but bigger. i can't even feel how far it goes back.
I called my GI, who's nurse called me back and told me that I had to call my surgeon. I called my surgeon, and his nurse said that EVERYONE with an ileostomy gets a hernia and that I probably shouldn't come in unless it becomes unbearable. Huh? I don't think that that is true. Also, it isn't unbearable, but (contrary to my earlier posts) it doesn't seem like the kind of thing I should ignore.
It is getting bigger and hurts more too. It makes it quite uncomfortable to wear jeans. I am hoping that I will be able to get a reversal after my wedding in July and maybe I can get it repaired then.
I hate when I feel like my Dr's don't take me seriously.