I have had my first H experience about a year ago when I started to have increased bowel mvts everyday (flare). It has remained a chronic issue even if remission came back, but still improuved. Now, since a few days I barely feel it, but I am not jumping to any joyful conclusions yet! The discomfort has always been minor in my case, but just enough to be annoying. (feeling of a small ball stuck in there). many of my friends (non-IBD) have H too and it seems it is a chronic recurrent issue for all of them too. It seems like when H starts, it becomes your new lifelong friend :thumbdown: Ive never heard of a bleeding H as an opening door to an abscess, althought there could be some logic there... What you describe sounds like H and not an abscess.
I dont know your current disease activity, but regular/normal bowel mvt should help improve this situation. If stools are too big, it can make the H bleed. (happened once to me)