Hello,
So its been an interesting month. About a month ago now I found out that my ileostomy is probably going to be permanent (the original plan was for it to be temporary). I had a colonoscopy and my doctor found that (a) I still had inflammation after eight months of treatment and diversion and (b) the part of my colon that had been most inflamed had healed and formed a stricture. In addition, my fistulas have not completely healed...which means that reconnection would be a bad idea (as would resection).
This gave me some very mixed feelings. I mean, I don't WANT to have a stoma for the rest of my life. I'm only 25 and this feels a bit like a life-sentence. I had dealing with the appliance and I still have some skin problems that just aren't getting better (I apparently have sensitive skin...the things you don't know).
But, on the other hand...I'm doing so much better now that I don't know if I can really complain. I have really enjoyed the last eight months because school and work have been sooooo much easier. I did really well...and I got a job offer for next fall from my summer job! My boyfriend has been super supportive and repeatedly told me he doesn't care.
I also just started training for a half-marathon on behalf of the Crohn's and Colitis Foundation of America...so I'm also getting back in shape.
I think the long and short of it is that I'm doing better then I have in the last two and a half years. So I should be happy. But I'm not. I think about having the stoma forever and I cry. The problem is...I don't want the options to be have the stoma and be healthy or get reversed and be sick. I want the option to have it reversed and be healthy! I feel like I've lost something...
Anyway....I'm sure I'll come to terms eventually. But I needed to vent to people who could really understand.
Erin
So its been an interesting month. About a month ago now I found out that my ileostomy is probably going to be permanent (the original plan was for it to be temporary). I had a colonoscopy and my doctor found that (a) I still had inflammation after eight months of treatment and diversion and (b) the part of my colon that had been most inflamed had healed and formed a stricture. In addition, my fistulas have not completely healed...which means that reconnection would be a bad idea (as would resection).
This gave me some very mixed feelings. I mean, I don't WANT to have a stoma for the rest of my life. I'm only 25 and this feels a bit like a life-sentence. I had dealing with the appliance and I still have some skin problems that just aren't getting better (I apparently have sensitive skin...the things you don't know).
But, on the other hand...I'm doing so much better now that I don't know if I can really complain. I have really enjoyed the last eight months because school and work have been sooooo much easier. I did really well...and I got a job offer for next fall from my summer job! My boyfriend has been super supportive and repeatedly told me he doesn't care.
I also just started training for a half-marathon on behalf of the Crohn's and Colitis Foundation of America...so I'm also getting back in shape.
I think the long and short of it is that I'm doing better then I have in the last two and a half years. So I should be happy. But I'm not. I think about having the stoma forever and I cry. The problem is...I don't want the options to be have the stoma and be healthy or get reversed and be sick. I want the option to have it reversed and be healthy! I feel like I've lost something...
Anyway....I'm sure I'll come to terms eventually. But I needed to vent to people who could really understand.
Erin