Welcome to the Forum. I wish I didn't have Crohn's, too, and I really feel for you and understand your fear for the future. But life with IBD
can be positive and and you
can find someone who will be right for you - just ask Samboi (I'll let him come on and tell his story
) It might not be straight away, but then it often isn't for people who do
not have a disease like ours.
First, though, we need to get you feeling more positive about yourself. As David says, you need to get as healthy as is possible for you. In the mean time you need to be able to control your symptoms as well as possible. There are lots of people on here who will help you with that - you just need to ask and don't be afraid to do that. We are all in this together.
Then you need to look at the things that you
can do that will enable you to get out and meet people. Do you work or study? Does your family understand about your UC?
Let us know more about yourself and join in the discussions here. :hug: