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New guy with a story

Hi everyone,

I'm new here to the forum and thought I would participate by telling a little bit of my story. I'm a 33 yr old male and have always been that guy who was always healthy no matter what. It was extremely rare for me to even catch a cold/flu/etc. I worked out daily for years and ate as healthy as possible.

About two years ago I was away from home on work and was staying in the provided lodging for the trip. The room always seemed kind of moldy and stale, but I never really thought much of it. I started to get a terrible cough for a couple months during my stay, but again, didn't think much of it and didn't want to see a doctor. I worried about it interfering with work instead of just getting checked out. About a week before I was to return home, the cough was so violent that it would cause cramps in my abdomin. I started to become constipated as well. I decided to see a doctor.

First, a lung infection was found. Easy enough. I was given antibiotics and they helped almost immediately. I was good in about a weeks time. However, the cramping and constipation where still there. I was referred to a GI specialist who upon listening to my description, decided to give me a colonoscopy. I didn't think he'd find anything and I would just need a good laxative or something to clear me out and I'd be on my way. (I've never had issues like this ever.) He finds inflamation in my terminal illium. He says I have Crohns. I of course am stubborn and find it hard to believe when he says I'll be on meds the rest of my life. I start out on a prednisone taper and then pentasa. This went on for a few months and he scoped me again. Yep, still inflamation. I insist on a second opinion as this is still hard for me to grasp.

I see a second opinion specialist at another location and going off the data, he pretty much concurs with the first doc. He decides to adjust the medication though as I'm not feeling 100% on the current load. This time, azathioprine is added to the mix and I go on for a few more months. This seems to be helping a bit and I'm able to function normally day to day with a little fatigue and stomach discomfort every once in awhile. Bowel movements are somewhat regular, but I'd get some constipation from time to time. Never any diarrhea or bleeding.

Months later I'm off the prednisone taper but still on pentasa and azathioprene. During this time, I have to relocate out of state for my job. I pick up the family and move and get myself another doctor in my new state. While here, I start getting cramps in my middle abdomin and a lot of constipation. Again, never any diarrhea or bleeding.
Eventually I hit the wall and suddenly I'm throwing up a couple times a week, hardly any bowel movements and just a lot of stomach pain. It doesn't matter what I eat or drink, I immediatly feel awful after consuming anything. The doc scopes me and says he doesn't find anything. I'm clean as a whistle and he can't figure out why. We both think maybe the drugs are making me ill since whatever I had going on is now cleared up. Maybe it's not Crohn's disease at all? He decides to stop me cold turkey on everything and within two weeks I feel like my old healthy self again.

I go on for about a year feeling great with no issue, no drugs, and I'm having more regular bowel movements. I can eat or drink anything with no issue, but still make smart choices. However, this February, I started feeling constipated again and the midsection cramping. This time it came out of nowhere very quickly. It was also much worse than I ever felt a year earlier. When I started throwing up, that's when my wife said it's time to hit the ER. They managed the pain for me, but found some inflamation and admitted me for six days at the hospital. During this time, they ran blood work, CT scans, etc and gave me another colonsocopy. The inflamation was back in the terminal illium but I was clean everywhere else. Doctors decide to call it Crohn's disease again and start me on a prednisone taper and mesalamine (Asacol). Fast forward to this month of April, I was feeling pretty good until about two weeks ago when cramping and constipation came back. My GI thinks it's time for the next level and go to Humira once every two weeks.

Big picture, over the last two years I just haven't done the research I should have to educate myself on this disease and other conditions like it. It wasn't until a couple weeks ago that I finally starting realizing that I do have something wrong inside me. I've never wanted to listen to the docs advice or believe what they were saying. I realize I'm no good to my family and friends always depressed and in a funk feeling sorry for myself and what I'm going through. I need to take action but now the idea of taking Humira scares me, especially because of the possible side effects. The doctor insists that the benefit of quality of life on the drug far outweighs any potential risks, but I'm still weary. Humira has been in my refrigerator for a couple weeks now and I haven't started it yet. I don't know what I'm waiting for.

I hope to find lots of information and advice here. My wife has been amazing in her support doing lots of research about this on her own. I need to take ownership though and tackle this head on myself once and for all.

I could get more detailed in my history here, but what I've described is the overall picture for now. Thanks for reading!
 
one thing to note is your history on antibiotics; which can wreak havoc on the belly. I would strongly urge you to look into probiotics daily and look into the studies done on probiotics. Quite interesting. All it takes is some nasty bacteria to get into your gut and thereafter you may have trouble...particularly when you add the antibiotics in there...those will also affect your belly. Watch what you eat and drink and how it affects you as well. Sometimes will take years to figure that one out. I eliminated so much as was basically only drinking herbal teas and iced tea and then eastern doc said you can only drink teas AFTER food, not before, or it will change the acid in belly and not let you digest properly. I found out the iced tea was actually constipating me! Never had before, but once stopped...things went back to normal. Glad to hear you have supportive spouse; it makes it all the easier to cope.

Do watch the side effects of your meds; this is so key to making choices on your care and what you want to risk.
 

valleysangel92

Moderator
Staff member
Hey.. welcome to the forum :)

Crohns is a big deal, and for many it can be a very difficult thing to come to terms with, especially if they've been totally healthy for most of their lives like you have. You aren't alone, it's great you have a supportive wife and we are all here for you too. Whenever you have a question, are worried about symptoms or your treatment or just need to vent, we'll do our best to try and answer them and show you support. Don't be embarrassed to ask anything, there's not much we haven't seen / heard before :)

The medication can be a scary, and its understandable that you have some misgivings but your gi wouldn't reccomend it unless he thought it was best and the earlier it gets treatment and things get under control, the less likely it is you'll have complications and need surgery. There are many people here that use hurmia and find it really helpful. Sometimes crohns has to be given a blast of powerful medication to get it under control and get you back feeling healthy :).

Another helpful thing could be to keep a food diary so you can clearly see any link between specific food types and flare ups of your symptoms
And your correct about the research, the more you know, the better you and your wife can look after your illness .
 

SarahBear

Moderator
Location
Charleston,
Welcome to the forum!

It's completely normal to spend some time trying to ignore what's going on with your body. A lot of us have gone through that denial stage.

It sounds as if you went into remission and then your doctor started second guessing their self. That's a strange situation. Are you still seeing that doctor? Are you confident in the care you receive from them?

We do have a Humira section in the treatment forum - you can find that here. In almost all cases, the risks of untreated Crohn's are worse than the risks associated with the medications used to treat it. As mickey said, just keep an eye out for any side effects and let your doctor know if they occur. Staying vigilant and keeping up communication with your doctor lessens a lot of the risks.

I hope you can go into remission and feel better soon. :)
 
Thanks everyone for the feedback. I've read up lots on juices/smoothie diet changes/supplementation so I'm going to try that avenue for awhile. For the last couple weeks I've been making some changes like that which seem to be somewhat promising.
 
Hello NJL and welcome to the forum :)

Just thought I would add in that we have a sub-forum for spouses as well that your wife might find useful?

I'm really sorry this is happening :) I think it's even harder to accept when you have been healthy up until that point, mine surprised me also, I ate a very healthy diet and exercised and thought I had pulled a tummy muscle, but it seemed not? Allow yourself time to adjust, you're doing the right thing by learning about it and have a great attitude, plus the support of your wife :).

I wish you lots of luck and remission soon, best wishes.:ghug:
 
Hi NJL & Welcome to the Forum:

You have had quite the journey and are now at a place where my daughter was six months ago. She is 20 years old and was diagnosed five years ago. After being on meds for five years, and failing Remicade among other meds, her GI recommended Humira in November of last year, but she refused and has gone another route which has been working really well for her. Please private message me for details.

I wish you all the best.

Lisa
 
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