Hi Guys,
I have a problem and need some advice. Currently I am 6 months post-surgery but I still have a problem eating (have to run to the bathroom right after I eat). I know I don't need to say anymore, you guys understand.
Anyway, I was invited to a party Saturday night. From what I was told it's going to a crazy party, and 35 people will be there...and one bathroom. If I do attend, I won't be able to eat anything...for obvious reasons.
I don't know the people throwing the party very well, but they seem to really want me to come (I guess Im a fun guy, lol) but there are a few problems. First, parties like this, when I know very few people, give me anxiety. Second, I still get sick if I eat, and have to run to the bathroom. Third, I have not been feeling well in general.
Do you think it's best just to tell them I am not feeling up to it? I don't want them to think I am just blowing it off, but I just cant handle social situation like this. Thoughts?
Thanks so much!
I have a problem and need some advice. Currently I am 6 months post-surgery but I still have a problem eating (have to run to the bathroom right after I eat). I know I don't need to say anymore, you guys understand.
Anyway, I was invited to a party Saturday night. From what I was told it's going to a crazy party, and 35 people will be there...and one bathroom. If I do attend, I won't be able to eat anything...for obvious reasons.
I don't know the people throwing the party very well, but they seem to really want me to come (I guess Im a fun guy, lol) but there are a few problems. First, parties like this, when I know very few people, give me anxiety. Second, I still get sick if I eat, and have to run to the bathroom. Third, I have not been feeling well in general.
Do you think it's best just to tell them I am not feeling up to it? I don't want them to think I am just blowing it off, but I just cant handle social situation like this. Thoughts?
Thanks so much!