I'm in the same situation, different ship though. My personal life is on the stable side. Well, as stable as it can be with 2 acres to maintain, 3 dogs and 2 kids with full schedules. (ages almost 11 & 12) My husband and I have been talking about adding another one to our family recently. The first 2 I had were back when I was 100% healthy. Ah, the good 'o days!
My husband is a bit nervous on how a pregnancy would effect my CD and UC. I know he is also thinking not so much the pregnancy itself, but after the baby arrives. He already starts his day at 5am - works full time, gets home, takes the dogs for a walk, get the kids started on their homework, get to my son's wrestling match a few times a week, get home, start dinner, clean up the house, etc. He finally crashes around 9 and hasn't sat down all day.
I do work full time but am lucky that my job allows me to get to the office at whatever time I get there. Normally, mornings are the hardest time for me, so I get in late and will work later. By the time I get home, dinner is waiting. I'm usually pretty tired and tend to get to bed early and haven't done much besides clean up the dinner dishes with his help.
We're fairly young still and realized we don't want an empty house in 7 years! lol