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Hello, everyone!

My name is Jess, and I'm 26 years old living in Victoria, BC. I have been reading this forum for a little while, and everyone is so supportive and amazing and have really helped me realize that what is going on with me is not just happening to me- so I've decided to join and hopefully get some support for my journey and give some support to you all as well. :)

I won't list my symptoms, as they describe Crohn's perfectly and there is quite a list for that!

I have been suffering with episodes since 2005, no diagnosis yet as it has really only gotten to the point of having to miss days of work this past year. Which is so frustrating- I LOVE my job. Love it. Lately it seems that my whole life revolves around how my body is deciding to act that day and it's really getting frustrating... In the past 7-8 months I have had to take more sick days than I have in the past 5 years. This is not me. But I'm realizing it's my reality right now, and now I have to figure out what is going on and what the plan is from here.

It took me 2 years to find a family doctor here in Victoria, so my road to a diagnosis has really only started recently. So many times when I go to a walk in, I get the "you must have a serious case of the flu"... seriously, if I hear that ever again I will FREAK!

Anyways, I found a doctor in Sidney, BC who immediately referred me to a GI. The wait to see the GI was 3 months, but I had my first appointment on March 21st, 2011 and I'm pretty sure I mucked it up big time. I didn't really feel listened to, however I thought I'd be able to list all my symptoms off the top of my head... I was nervous, forgot a bunch. That was my fault. He pushed IBS on me and gave me a booklet on IBS (which I read and even the checklist had some things on it that definitely point to me NOT having IBS) and told me the office would call me with a hospital appointment for a sigmoidoscopy (his reasoning for that over a colonoscopy- "it's less stress on the patient"). He also brushed off me mentioning blood in my stool saying it's probably just internal hemorrhoids?

After all these problems for all these years, hmm. From what I read on here though, finding a team of doctors that actually care seems to be quite the journey on its own.

Fast forward to yesterday- I started having extreme pain so I went to the clinic and the doctor there was a doctor who I had seen a year ago regarding the same issues and she remembered me. Well, we had an amazing chat and I have never felt so taken care of and validated by a doctor- she wrote a letter to my GI saying that with my history I should be having a colonoscopy and she said if I don't feel satisfied with my treatment from him to see her again and get a referral to another GI! This from a walk in doctor, wow.

I do not have another GI appointment booked currently, but I did have some bloodwork done and something has come up on it so I am going to see my GP next week to discuss what it is. Finally something has shown up. What kind place am I at where I feel relief to know that something has shown up on my bloodwork?! That kind of saddens me a bit, but at the same time it's hopefully one step closer to figuring out what is going on. I wrote out an entire list of symptoms that I am going to give to her (even though I've already told her) and I'm going to ask if I should rebook another appointment with the GI to give him the same list.

I also recently learned that my cousin suffers from Crohn's.

This ended up being way longer than expected! haha... For those of you who made it this far, thanks for reading my babble! It feels kind of good to type it out- this isn't something I often talk about or put into words.

Hugs to you all for being such fighters, I look forward to interacting with such a great group of people.

<3
 
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Hi Jess welcome!! :bigwave:. Trust me your story is familiar to most of us. I have had crohns for many years and took 1 full year of every test in the book, and I too wasnt taking seriously. When you are young, most just look at you like you are from planet Mars! Well not here, we understand exactly what you are going through. Being a fellow Canadian my self, I know about how hard it is to get a Gp, I only got one because my doc it my husband's company doctor (major mining company). I got referred to a gi and he was a big help and there is an amazing surgeon so I lucked out too. I am so happy you got taken care of because lord knows the Canadian system is slow and you get the buck passed alot. I know you dont want this disease but the more knowledge you seek , the more you can help yourself. Great people your age and province to help you out, hope to see you around. Keep us updated on your progress! :D
 
Welcome Jess! Yup, many us of know how difficult it can be to get some answers. But, boy, you have been going through the motions for so long!

I sure hope you can officially get to the bottom of all of this soon, start treatment, and start to feel better! Good luck!
 
Hi Jess and welcome!

Sounds like you are on the road to getting some answers! Can you continue seeing that walk-in doctor as your regular GP? It's great to find someone that you connect with - that usually makes all the difference.

I hope you can find some relief soon and get back to that job you love so much!

- Amy
 
Hi Jess, and welcome! Hope that you get some clear answers soon. I really hope you don't have Crohn's, but boy oh boy do I (and quite a number of others here on CF) know what you mean by saying you kind of hope something shows up. There's a neat thread on here somewhere about people feeling bad that our history of being ignored leads some of us to actually wanting a diagnosis, just to get some HELP already. :goodluck:
 
Thank you so much for your kind words, everyone :) My next doctor's appointment (just with my GP) is this Tuesday, I've prepared a list of anything that could possibly be going on with my body that I can think of and I'm going to throw down! Enough dilly-dallying from my doctors.

xJillx, yeah it has been awhile since my symptoms started but it's really only gotten to the point of extreme concern for me this past year and for some reason the last 4 months I've been experiencing problems more often and more severely. How frustrating!

ameslouise, I'm going to go to my appointment with my GP on Tuesday and see what she has to say and feel it out and if I'm not 100% excited about what the next steps in her mind are I am going to march back to the walk in and talk to the doctor I saw and ask her if she'll help me with my case. You're right, a connection is so important.
 
Hi welcome :)

Good luck on Tuesday with your doctor. You know your body best keep pushing for what is you need...answers and help to feel well again.
 
Hi Jess! Glad you've decided to join us. Personally, I can't say I can relate to your issue of not being taken seriously... My doctor (one of) is known for being a terrifying... lady... She kinda told my GI that he HAD to take me...

But atleast you got an appointment. Try and get another one, and make sure you tell him everything. Good luck!
 

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