I am currently under the consultant regarding a rectovaginal fistula. I have had radiotherapy and chemotherapy for bowel cancer. Got the all clear now two years on I have a fistula. I have been given a choice whether to have surgery and a Stoma for a while or live with it if I can. I’ve already had a Stoma for a year which has now been reversed however I’m worried I may end up with it for life. I have 3 kids and I’m 34. It’s embarrassing losing wind and small amounts of soil from the vagina also interfering with my sex life. Do I go for the surgery option or carry on. I need some advice