nogutsnoglory
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I was dating this guy and he really liked me but didn't know the full extent of my Illness. I didn't really care if he wanted to be with me or not because the chemistry wasn't great and quite frankly I'm too sick to date unless someone just wants to lay on a couch and watch TV with me which is probably not exhilarating!
Anyways I decided to share more about my illness the past few days and why I can't work because I'm a full time patient getting treatments and going for procedures etc.
His tune totally changed and he told my friends he is goal oriented and I'm not. I don't have enough curse words for that right now because I am goal oriented except I can't accomplish any other goal until my goal of health is accomplished.
I don't really care that I won't date him but the fact that my health scares him and that he calls me "lazy" pissed me off.
Maybe one day I'll find someone who understands or is on a similar boat and won't judge an invisible disability.
Anyways I decided to share more about my illness the past few days and why I can't work because I'm a full time patient getting treatments and going for procedures etc.
His tune totally changed and he told my friends he is goal oriented and I'm not. I don't have enough curse words for that right now because I am goal oriented except I can't accomplish any other goal until my goal of health is accomplished.
I don't really care that I won't date him but the fact that my health scares him and that he calls me "lazy" pissed me off.
Maybe one day I'll find someone who understands or is on a similar boat and won't judge an invisible disability.