This may not be my place and I may not be needed but I read through a lot of your posts here and I want to say you all are great parents for being here doing research and finding information not just for you but for your children as well. I'm only just 19 now, was diagnosed at 16, and started this whole ordeal a year or 2 prior and my parents have been there every step of the way, at every appt they could possibly be and behind me every step of the way. Sometimes we may not show it but I tell you that I'm sure all of your children appareciate it more than we will ever let you know. I also just wanted to offer you guys my support and if you guys have any questions what so ever about what its like being in high school or being in university or dealing with friends or work or god knows what else while deeling with Crohn's then feel free to ask and if I can help I will. Good luck to you all and I wish you and your kids the best of luck.