Hi,
I don't have an ostomy yet, but for a long time my doctor has been mentioning it as a last resort.
Now I really seem out of options and I have an appointment in June, where we'll probably discuss a stoma again, and I think I may decide to have it finally, if my doctor still thinks it's a good idea.
But my question for those of you who've had a similar surgery is how much weight did you lose while recovering? I am terribly underweight right now. I've always been a bit underweight, but now my bmi is only about 12 or 13. I have been trying to gain weight since last December, and I haven't managed it, but I haven't lost any either and it seems like I'm stuck at this weight.
I would assume that my doctor will not recommend surgery while I am this underweight, however I'd thought that before and he happily went ahead with the operation, a couple of months ago, and I had no problems with recovery from that one. However that was a minor, laproscopic procedure, I didn't even have to stay overnight in hospital.
A few years ago I had a much more major surgery, and while recovering I lost several kilos - I don't really know how much because I wasn't weighing myself very often. I was a normal weight when I had that surgery though, so I could afford to lose a little. The reason I lost weight was because of all the nausea, etc. resulting from the anaesthetic, and because of the pain in my stomach caused by the surgery. So I was not eating enough, there weren't any problems with malabsorption.
I'm expecting the ostomy surgery to also be quite major. It will be done laproscopically if possible, and obviously will be planned and so not an emergency surgery. If you've had a similar surgery, how much weight did you lose because of it? Did you have problems eating after the surgery? Did you have to have any supplements or a feeding tube?
I actually really want a feeding tube right now. I've never had one, and to be honest I don't know much about them, except that inserting the tube sounds horrible and I think I'd faint as I do when I have anything invasive. I'm so tired of eating when it makes me so ill, and of the mental stress of worrying if I'm getting enough calories in, and forcing food down because I know I need to gain weight. The idea of knowing that most of my calorie needs are taken care of by the tube sounds like a relief to me. I'd still continue to eat normally as well as I do enjoy eating when I'm feeling well enough to!
What's surprised me though is that my doctors don't seem that concerned by my weight now. The doctor who would be doing this surgery has never really commented on my weight, and he's been seeing me for years and has seen me at various stages of both low weights and healthy weights. I can't believe he'd agree to operate on me now though.
When I was a teenager I was misdiagnosed with anorexia because I was losing weight, and the doctors treating me then treated me as if being 1kg underweight put your life at risk. I became used to doctors telling me that being underweight was the most dangerous thing in the world.
But now, when I'm no longer being treated by eating disorder specialists, my doctors don't seem that bothered. I really want a doctor to take responsibility of my weight for me, as I just can't eat enough anymore and need a long term solution. I hate knowing how worried my parents are about me.
So I suppose in a way I want the consultation about the ostomy to bring my weight to doctors' attention so I can get some help with it. Did anyone else have the surgery while underweight? Was it a concern when you went through the pre-op assessments?
Sorry this is so long, I'm just not sure how I'll ever be able to go ahead with the surgery if I can't find a solution to my weight.
I don't have an ostomy yet, but for a long time my doctor has been mentioning it as a last resort.
Now I really seem out of options and I have an appointment in June, where we'll probably discuss a stoma again, and I think I may decide to have it finally, if my doctor still thinks it's a good idea.
But my question for those of you who've had a similar surgery is how much weight did you lose while recovering? I am terribly underweight right now. I've always been a bit underweight, but now my bmi is only about 12 or 13. I have been trying to gain weight since last December, and I haven't managed it, but I haven't lost any either and it seems like I'm stuck at this weight.
I would assume that my doctor will not recommend surgery while I am this underweight, however I'd thought that before and he happily went ahead with the operation, a couple of months ago, and I had no problems with recovery from that one. However that was a minor, laproscopic procedure, I didn't even have to stay overnight in hospital.
A few years ago I had a much more major surgery, and while recovering I lost several kilos - I don't really know how much because I wasn't weighing myself very often. I was a normal weight when I had that surgery though, so I could afford to lose a little. The reason I lost weight was because of all the nausea, etc. resulting from the anaesthetic, and because of the pain in my stomach caused by the surgery. So I was not eating enough, there weren't any problems with malabsorption.
I'm expecting the ostomy surgery to also be quite major. It will be done laproscopically if possible, and obviously will be planned and so not an emergency surgery. If you've had a similar surgery, how much weight did you lose because of it? Did you have problems eating after the surgery? Did you have to have any supplements or a feeding tube?
I actually really want a feeding tube right now. I've never had one, and to be honest I don't know much about them, except that inserting the tube sounds horrible and I think I'd faint as I do when I have anything invasive. I'm so tired of eating when it makes me so ill, and of the mental stress of worrying if I'm getting enough calories in, and forcing food down because I know I need to gain weight. The idea of knowing that most of my calorie needs are taken care of by the tube sounds like a relief to me. I'd still continue to eat normally as well as I do enjoy eating when I'm feeling well enough to!
What's surprised me though is that my doctors don't seem that concerned by my weight now. The doctor who would be doing this surgery has never really commented on my weight, and he's been seeing me for years and has seen me at various stages of both low weights and healthy weights. I can't believe he'd agree to operate on me now though.
When I was a teenager I was misdiagnosed with anorexia because I was losing weight, and the doctors treating me then treated me as if being 1kg underweight put your life at risk. I became used to doctors telling me that being underweight was the most dangerous thing in the world.
But now, when I'm no longer being treated by eating disorder specialists, my doctors don't seem that bothered. I really want a doctor to take responsibility of my weight for me, as I just can't eat enough anymore and need a long term solution. I hate knowing how worried my parents are about me.
So I suppose in a way I want the consultation about the ostomy to bring my weight to doctors' attention so I can get some help with it. Did anyone else have the surgery while underweight? Was it a concern when you went through the pre-op assessments?
Sorry this is so long, I'm just not sure how I'll ever be able to go ahead with the surgery if I can't find a solution to my weight.