This forum is a place where you can be whatever you want to be. No one will say you are selfish or "tough, thats life just deal with it". Posting guidelines are a bit more lax here, as this is meant as a place where you can just let off some steam. Maybe you just want to put something in writing and do not even want others to reply. Maybe you need to make a confession (anonymously perhaps). Use this area in the way that will make you feel best.