I had a doctor years ago that told me not to strain. Twice today I have felt like I had to. Is there something yoou all take to help that ? I have had to do it twice within a short time.
I tend to massage the gut area. Sometimes it helps.
Also something unique worth considering....do you have a footstool you can put in front of the toilet? When we are able to squat more deeply it all passes through our system easily. Using the footstool while on the toilet may help imitate a deeper squat and keep you from needing to strain.
Another thing is to switch lifting each knee up to your chest when you are sitting on the toilet. Just tried it a few hours ago after thinking of this conversation and it worked! :lol::ytongue:
There is a product called "Squatty Potty", which is a stool shaped to slide in around the toilet when you are not using it. The video clip is worth watching! :ylol2: http://www.squattypotty.com/
Footstool is a good one. The other thing - actually try to relax. Really difficult but I find if I get my knees up and focus on relaxing it does help things move. Straining increases blood flow and causes the muscles to get bigger, just like working out makes those visible muscles bigger. So do the opposite. Let them loose. I was thinking a muscle relaxant might work but haven't had the right opportunity to try it.