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Well this will probably be my last post. First I want to thank everyone who replied to my posts, the help and information. Unfortunately my boyfriend told me today he is moving out. Already has a place, never discussed this with me just informed me today. I know a few times he said he was...

Well I am back again after a few months. Nothing has changed, well I guess things are worse. He won't talk to me and being shut out for way too long now I am wondering what I can do. He seems to want out of our realationship despite what I do or say. He says he wants to work on this but does...

Hey Kev, Just getting around to reading your post. My boyfriend had a similar reaction but used the fleet phosphosoda(sp?) prep and had to cancel his scope in April. Very sick etc. He is now quite anxious for a re booking, ie. knowing what is going on with his crohns. He is very depressed and...

Thanks again, will keep you posted!

Thanks again, I will mention this to him but he seems very unreceptive to any suggestions I make. ie. "I don't know what he goes through". But I try anyway! All the help and support I can get is so good!

Thanks kiny, I know he is a lot of pain but he says he has discussed this with his GI doc, whom he feels is the best, but other than a total large bowel removal, hence a colostomy, nothing else can be done. He doesn't want this, ie. colostomy, He has a lot of scar tissue which is the major...

About 6 months ago I asked him if maybe conselling would be a benefit for us but he said he didn't think so. I will suggest it again and hope he will be more receptive this time but I have no idea what is going on with him since he will not talk to me. He seems to be in his own world so much...

Well after almost a month now and things are even worse. He has totally shut me out, unless I say goodnight and give him a kiss he will not bother. I go and hug him when he comes home from work, but if I didn't do this he wouldn't bother at all, as I have tried this. I feel like I am living with...

Thanks everyone. He is very happy with his GI dr. He had seen about 3 others whom he said were no good. Apparently a lot of his pain is due to scar tissue from a bowel resection. He has discussed what can be done re this, scar tissue, and has basically been told the only "solution" is total...

thanks for the replies. He was diagnosed almost 6 years ago. He has been on the same meds for 4 years now. As for remission, unlikely to ever happen according to him. I guess it bothers me that he says his pain level is about the same as when we first got together. He didn't shut me out then, we...

my boyfriend of several years has crohns.in the beginning everything was great but lately he shuts me out most of the time. I have gone to all his tests, procedures , appoint and WANT to, but despite that he is quiet and won't talk to me. I try to cuddle with him etc.but am told he is in too...