Obviously you'll get many different answers on this! =) Thats a good thing!
In my experience (I've been to hospitals all up and down the east coast- military family) the Cleveland Clinic in Cleveland Ohio is the #1 best hospital I've ever been to. People fly in from ALL OVER THE WORLD to see these doctors. They've been featured in Time magazine and lots of medical publications praising them for thier work and research. The Cleveland Clinic is one of the TOP hospitals in the country for Crohn's/Colits patients because they are almost always the first to invent new medicines and try new therapies. These people KNOW what they are doing. On top of that- They value excellent bedside manner. The doctors, nurses, and pretty much any employee you will come in contact with are kind and respectful of the patients as well as thier families. They will go out of thier way to make your experience as stress free and healing as possible. Its the only hospital I've been to where they actually have people employed JUST to walk around talking to the patients family, comforting them, making phone calls for them, reservations, getting you coffee or a plate of food if you dont want to leave the waiting room... its like a concierge service. My husband and I are actually considering moving back to ohio just so I can go back to this hospital for regular treatment. I'm also very picky about cleanliness... if there is ANY place where things should be clean, it should be a hospital. The CC is the ONLY hospital Ive ever been in where EVERY single room is kept clean and sanitary. The patient rooms are all spacious and comfortable. This hospital has PLENTY of money to keep everything up to date and brand new. You will never see a dirty old toilet, peeling wallpaper, or rust/grime on ANYTHING. If your wife is like me she will greatly appreciate the effort the staff there put into keeping everything nice, clean, and organized.
The doctors I had (I have Crohn's):
Dr. Scott Strong -
http://my.clevelandclinic.org/staff_directory/2/Staff_1111.aspx -the BEST doctor I've had for ANYTHING. One of the smartest, kindest doctors Ive ever met. He recently went to Africa to open a new clinic, but since he's listed on the CC website as an employee Im assuming he's back in the US.
Dr. Aaron Brzezinski
http://my.clevelandclinic.org/staff_directory/1/Staff_853.aspx -very intelligent man with a strong accent lol =)
Of course they both come with a team of doctors and nurses who are also nice and KNOW what they are doing- it would take me all day to list them all.
It might not be so easy to get in to see these people at first. You must be persistent, but if your wife is having a serious flare or problem that isnt responding they will gladly take her in without issue. IT IS WORTH THE TROUBLE!!!!