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I wanted first and foremost to say thank you to all who write, answer questions and give support. I have been a quiet part of this forum for a while now going over all who have written and paying special attention to the posts about treatments. To all of you THANK YOU!!

My son was diagnosed with crohns disease this January 2008. January 2007, he had emergency surgery where they took out 5 feet of small intestine, BUT they never found crohns disease. I would just like to tell all of you he never complained ONCE of any kind of pain. 5 feet of the lining of his instestines was gone with a baseball size abcess and the kid felt nothing!! The only reason we brought him to the emergency room is because he was starting to dehydrate, not because of any pain.

Since then he as has all the tests imaginable never quite finding crohns. Until genetic testing was done and a pillcam. Once the pillcam was done, there were over 40 ulcerations in the juijeum part of his intestines. Without the pill cam they would have never been able to diagnose.

I know a lot of you are in a lot of pain and I feel for all of you. My son (16) does not have ANY. He was started on 4000mg pentasa and 350mg of flagyl. He just had another pill cam done last week and I just got the news from our gastroentrologist that he is a lot worse. Although pentasa seems to be trying to do its job, it isn't enough for him. There are many more ulcerations, and the some of the ones that were there before are now much worse, also there is major narrowing through the small intestine. The doctor who invented the pill cam has a scale from 1-1400. Michael is at 1378, and is not in pain!! His records have been sent all over to many many different hospitals and all doctors agree that he should be in the hospital with pain medication, but there is no need.

Does anyone else have this?? I don't want my son to have any pain, BUT a little ping or pang here or there would help. I feel he is a walking time bomb. [/FONT]
 
I rarely feel pain with my Crohns especially when I was younger the doctor was always amazed by what I didn't feel My first surgery was when I was sixteen and I had a fistula to my bladder so bowel was actually going into my bladder and I felt nothing. Honestly if your son had five feet removed in January of 2007 he probably was suffering for awhile but being young he just got used to the pain and thought of it as normal. Whenever I was admitted to the hospital everyone would say you don't look sick and I would say I don't feel sick either but my tests always showed different so there I was feeling fine in the hospital. Just make sure he doesn't miss any GI appointments and that he has all the tests and blood work that they recommend and make sure that his GI keeps on top of things. Also if he does complain of pain then it's really bad and drop everything and head to the ER. Good luck and I hope things begin to look better for him.
 
son with Crohn's

Welome to the forum- I am a fellow mother of a son with Crohn's, so I can fully sympathize with your feelings. Although my son had excruciating pain, unbenownst to me until near the time of his first hospitalization, because he was away at college at the time, he chose to ignore it for a dangerously long period. Only the young can do that!
I can tell you that you will find a wealth of information and support here-it helped to get me through some of my most difficult periods dealing with my son's illness and subsequent surgery. This is one of the most intelligent and caring communities on the internet, so take advantage of it.
Wishing youand your son all the best
Sincerely,
Ramona
 
The tricky thing about Crohn's is that everyone's symptoms are different, everyone responds to medications differently, and different foods bother different people. I usually don't have pain, I just have a lot of diarreah and urgency and frequency when I am in a flare. Some people bleed, some people stricture, some people have constipation, some people are balled up in the couch in pain. It's crazy to figure out how to take care of it, but be patient, and your son's doctor will hopefully provide the best care for his situation.
Welcome, and good luck!
 
Thank you so much for all your posts. It has been overwhelming for our whole family lately, and I guess we all need to just keep informed and keep up with what his doctor says and this forum will be a great help. Again thank you!!
 

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