Hi Crohnys! I'm new to the forum idea but more or less desperate at this point.
I was diagnosed with Crohn's about 9 years ago at 17 years old. My original doctor probably had no idea what he was doing; had me on very high doses of Pred for about 7 years straight. I moved on to a better doctor when I was hospitalized for a month after my intestines opened up and he literally threw his hands in the air proclaiming that he "didn't know what to do" with me (haha). Skip a year or two ahead to now, and my new doctor (who I trust very much) is saying that we have no other choice than to do a small bowel resection, as at least 20cm of my small intestine is completely destroyed.
I hate the idea of surgery because the last time I was hospitalized the team of doctors told me that this particular surgery tends to not heal well, requiring more surgeries, and ultimately ending with a c bag, which is the LAST thing I want!
I am 26 now and my husband and I had hoped to start our family this year. Should I have faith in my doctor and go head with the surgery? Or should I seek out a second opinion? If so, how do I go about doing that? My doctor is the go-to in Kalamazoo. Should I drive all the way to Chicago? Any advice helps! Thanks for reading
I was diagnosed with Crohn's about 9 years ago at 17 years old. My original doctor probably had no idea what he was doing; had me on very high doses of Pred for about 7 years straight. I moved on to a better doctor when I was hospitalized for a month after my intestines opened up and he literally threw his hands in the air proclaiming that he "didn't know what to do" with me (haha). Skip a year or two ahead to now, and my new doctor (who I trust very much) is saying that we have no other choice than to do a small bowel resection, as at least 20cm of my small intestine is completely destroyed.
I hate the idea of surgery because the last time I was hospitalized the team of doctors told me that this particular surgery tends to not heal well, requiring more surgeries, and ultimately ending with a c bag, which is the LAST thing I want!
I am 26 now and my husband and I had hoped to start our family this year. Should I have faith in my doctor and go head with the surgery? Or should I seek out a second opinion? If so, how do I go about doing that? My doctor is the go-to in Kalamazoo. Should I drive all the way to Chicago? Any advice helps! Thanks for reading