hey jooles.
ugh i know exactly how you feel. i did the SCD diet for a few months, which prohibits sugar, and i really had trouble missing my sweet treats.
if you wanna go for it, heres a couple things i did:
-i ate homemade yogurt mixed with homemade applesauce (no sugar, tasted good!)
-drink comforting drinks-hot apple cider, fruity teas
-you can make smoothies with yogurt, fruit and honey
-there are actually companies out there that bake treats that are sugar, wheat, and dairy free!
www.scdbakery.com has a weekly menu of treats that they cook, and they actually taste pretty good for lacking so many "normal" ingredients.
-there are some natural sugar substitutes out there: steva, agave nectar....those are the two off the top of my head. i havent tried either of them, but its worth a try i guess.
i guess just try to start small. i wouldnt go cold turkey on taking out the sugar, just maybe have one less sugary item each day? or if you want a treat, think about if you REALLLLY want it, and if the answer is no, then have something else to fill you up and save your cake for tommorow! i found that by eating my favorites less often, i enjoyed them sooo much more when i actually treated myself to one. and then you feel good about yourself for making the choice to limit.
hope this helps, good luck!