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Apologies in advance for the length of my post. :)

I got diagnosed with crohn's last september.

Throughout the last couple of years I didn't have any sort of symptoms except for 2 instances of what I then thought to be food poisoning. After graduating university, I did some traveling during the summer and started looking for a full time job.

All of a sudden, I got hit with severe symptoms, I lost about 20 pounds, went through periods where I was unable to eat anything at all and had blinding stomach cramps (I am sure most of you can relate that the level of pain is almost surreal), or keep anything down, including water for 12-36 hours at a time. Probably the worst feeling in the world was being extremely thirsty but being unable to drink anything knowing that if I did, I would have severe vomiting and stomach pains within 5-10 minutes. My doctor put me on a pretty heavy dosage of prednisone and we were considering surgery but decided that due to my age it may be a bit premature. I transitioned from prednisone over to imuran and that's what I'm on now.

While my condition is nowhere near what it was in the fall, which I consider to be probably the worst time of my life, I am still unable to eat any sort of food that contains meat, which is a bit sad since I used to be a big carnivore.

Currently eating fish and rice/potatoes every day. My doctor offered to put me on remicade, but due to my positive TB test I would have had to be on a whole other dosage of medication which I was quite wary of due to the side effects I've been experiencing due to the steroids/imuran so I decided to stay on imuran for now.

I consider myself to be a fairly strong person mentally, so I am coping with this as well as one can expect. However, I am having trouble dealing with being sick while also having to find employment in this economy. I usually try to always be bettering myself in some way but I feel like I have currently plateau'd because I am not furthering myself in any way (education and otherwise). I tried working out like I used to before but a normal workout (about an hour weightlifting) would cause my condition to worsen for several days after. I am still doing things like playing soccer on weekends but I don't see myself putting weight doing just that.

I also was big into whitewater kayaking prior to getting diagnosed, and would go practically every weekend. I am finding it very hard to be away from home camping and any food that I usually have out there usually doesn't agree with me (though it seems like I'm eating the same stuff) which is quite frustrating because this was something I enjoyed most. I also find that I have about half the energy I used to have and can no longer kayak as long as I used to, it has also proven to be somewhat dangerous as trying to roll your boat back over (in ww kayaking you are upside down a lot) while you're fatigued is very difficult.

My social life has also suffered due to not being able to drink alcohol, I realize this is a lame excuse but partying just isn't as fun without drinking. I have lost some of my university friends simply because I don't go out as much anymore, and being designated driver and trying to get drunk people to follow you out of a bar is extremely difficult and annoying to do week in and week out.

I realize some of this stuff sounds a bit whiney, but I mostly shut up about it to my friends because I'm one of those people to just deal with it and move on than to bitch about my problems, but I figure part of the purpose of this forum is to vent so I'm exercising my option to do so now.

Just wanted to join to see what other people have been doing, what's been working and what hasn't and if I will ever be able to eat a hamburger again because I was never a fan of fish to begin with :)
 
Hi Red and welcome!! While I don't think things will ever get back to pre-crohn's normal, EJ's life and diet are, at least at the moment, pretty manageable. From what I've read on here, so far he's been pretty lucky about which foods he can tolerate.

I can understand what you're saying about drinking with friends at your age. Lord knows the fun I had at your age almost always involved alcohol.

I hope you get things settled enough to get back to doing the things you like to do. Good luck and vent away, you're safe on here.
 
Hi Redstar and :welcome:

Sorry I can't help with the diet issues you are having. This is a wonderful forum with plenty of advice and great people who'll listen when you need it. The whole alcohol thing worries me with Roo, since she is at uni and on Imuran. It scares the B'jesus out of me at times! :ylol: 'cause I know she partying, just gotta trust she knows what she's doing. :eek:

Glad you found us and look forward to seeing you around.

Take care,
Dusty
 
Welcome!

Hi Redstar,

Welcome to the forum!

It was great to hear your story, and I'm totally with you on the "not being able to drink"-part... I also sometimes feel stupid when I say that I don't have as much fun at parties when I don't drink. I try my very best to have fun and dance and let loose, but it's definitely not the same. Sometimes I suceed, sometimes it just gets boring. And if my friends get really drunk, then it is just time to go home... ;) Anyway, I really hope that we will be able to have the odd drink once in a while again in the future. :)

This is the place to vent, by the way, so don't worry about feeling whiny. I also just shut up and put up with my Crohn's most of the time, and I don't want to burden my friends and family with my problems, so it is always nice to be able to talk to others who are experiencing the same thing - cause you all get it. :)

Good luck with your working out and excercising! I'm impressed you have energy to play football in the weekends - I'm not there yet. Though I probably would dance and not play football if I had the energy. ;)

Take care and all the best with everything. Use this forum to find tips and help and support, and please share your experiences with us every once in a while.

Hugs,
 
Hi Redstar
and welcome

Ok, take this from an old Crohnie! Your life isn't over! you're only 23! It's only just begun!
At the moment you're having a bit of a bad un, but this won't be forever, I promise!
You have such a great attitude and all the sports that you do will benefit you in the long run to keep you stress free, stress is a killer with this disease, believe me!
When I got a dx in 2005 (symptoms for 15 years +) i started on all sorts of meds and remained in remission and pain free for nearly 5 years! it is possible, it can be done, I was a party animal too (yes hard to believe, I know) and I drank. At the mo, I've chosen to abstain cos of the steroids I'm on, give yourself time, don't beat yourself up with thorny branches! Oh, and I can eat meat and burgers now, I just don't if I'm flaring!
In time you'll manage this, stick around and vent away!
lotsa luv
Joan xxx
 
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