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I know how it feels. I had a full colectomy and illesotomy in my late 20's. I was never sure if the Crohns made the anxiety worse or vice versa. I think one of the joys of getting a bit older now is that i realise that the VAST majority of things that i have become anxious about simply never happen! In Zen they call them delusions. We take an initial fact and add to it with supposition and guesswork and steadily get more and more wound up. Most of us even imagine how the conversation will go with ABC when XYZ happens. Getting training in recognising that these thoughts ARE delusions AND that we all have them is a fantastic first step in beating anxiety or at least knowing how to put it back in its pen! Whether that is through Zen, CBT etc doenst really matter although to me I think both is the best answer. The other really vital point is to know that just because you have had anxiety and its been tough so far, that doesnt mean for a moment that you cant beat it! I have known 80 year olds who have been able to get the wild horses of anxiety back under control with just a little training. All i know for sure is that teh Crohn's is much better behaved when i have anxiety and stress under control. Doesnt mean dropping out of life at all! Quite teh opposite.........it means you get to be in charge for a change!
Colphin
Colphin