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khohl
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Hi,
I'm new to the forum. I am 21, diagnosed at 17. I've always had immune problems. When I was 6 I was diagnosed with a rare autoimmune kidney disorder that eventually went into remission. Now I have RA symptoms with joint damage, but my doctors are reluctant to call it RA, they say it's a symptom of the Crohn's.
Anyway, I got engaged at 18 to my only love, we've been best friends since middle school. At the time we got engaged he had just left the hospital after a one month stay. He had turned yellow in a matter of days. They finally diagnosed him with autoimmune hepatitus, another rare autoimmune disease. After a year on prednisone, he was fine. Last summer he started having diarrhea all the time. Then he was diagnosed with UC. He's tried Asacol, but Pentasa seems to work better for him, which makes me think that he actually has Crohn's (Asacol is absorbed in the large intesten, Pentasa in the small).
So, his doctor told him that if we have children then there is a 75% that they will have IBD. I've read that if both parents have IBD then the cances of passing it on are 35%, but maybe because we have multiple autoimmune diseases then the chances are higher? I have been tested for the Crohn's gene (NOD2 I think) and I do have it, but he has not been tested. We've discussed adopting and we both are okay with it, but we'd really like to have our own children. I'm not really sure I'll be able to have children, because I've never been symptom free for more than three months, but children are a few years into the future, so maybe things will change.
Is there anyone here who knows about this? Or has had children with another person with IBD?
Thanks.
I'm new to the forum. I am 21, diagnosed at 17. I've always had immune problems. When I was 6 I was diagnosed with a rare autoimmune kidney disorder that eventually went into remission. Now I have RA symptoms with joint damage, but my doctors are reluctant to call it RA, they say it's a symptom of the Crohn's.
Anyway, I got engaged at 18 to my only love, we've been best friends since middle school. At the time we got engaged he had just left the hospital after a one month stay. He had turned yellow in a matter of days. They finally diagnosed him with autoimmune hepatitus, another rare autoimmune disease. After a year on prednisone, he was fine. Last summer he started having diarrhea all the time. Then he was diagnosed with UC. He's tried Asacol, but Pentasa seems to work better for him, which makes me think that he actually has Crohn's (Asacol is absorbed in the large intesten, Pentasa in the small).
So, his doctor told him that if we have children then there is a 75% that they will have IBD. I've read that if both parents have IBD then the cances of passing it on are 35%, but maybe because we have multiple autoimmune diseases then the chances are higher? I have been tested for the Crohn's gene (NOD2 I think) and I do have it, but he has not been tested. We've discussed adopting and we both are okay with it, but we'd really like to have our own children. I'm not really sure I'll be able to have children, because I've never been symptom free for more than three months, but children are a few years into the future, so maybe things will change.
Is there anyone here who knows about this? Or has had children with another person with IBD?
Thanks.