Goinhg home destress and get better

[afman]

Hi everybody i have been in on a constant hurting and bad stomach probelms since may this year. many test but all come back normal but i still having lot of problems with BM and nausea and lots of stomach pain driving me to the er 20 times since August for pain control since my gi wont prescribe anything for pain beside the bentyl for spams which only works so much. been having lots of problems with wife not belving anything wrong with me problems with inlaws and work. so i decided go back home to my parents and chill for a couple of weeks to see if that will work since eveything else has failed. i have apprecaited all the support and info i have gotten on here so far.

 

[rottengut91]

Sorry to hear your having so many troubles. Dealing with CD is more than enough, then to add other such pressures only compounds the problem. I'm glad to see that you are somewhat removing yourself to find some relief. Please, try to relax. We all know, stress only aggravates our CD. Maybe take some time to write your wife a letter and explain to her how you feel, both physically and mentally. Hopefully this does not drive you two apart. Good Luck, hope things start looking better for you.

 

[afman]

thanks, in her mind she dont think im coming back but i am i just had to get away from the kids, her, and the inlaws for a couple of weeks to get better where i can support the family again since i have only been able to work 3 days in the last month and a half.

 

[Lucy]

Afman have you shared the forum with your wife? Maybe if she reads what so many others go thru it will help her understand your pain a little better. Hang in there and I hope it helps you to get away for a little while.