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Hello everyone! I'm Darby, 17 years old and diagnosed with Crohn's Disease at age 12. I've been feeling pretty down lately about my crohn's so I guess I'll just go ahead and share my story.

I was always pretty underweight growing up, but doctors always chalked it up to simply having a naturally small frame. I started first experiencing crohn's symptoms around the age of 11, I was constantly having diarrhea but I was so embarrassed that I did everything I could to hide it from my parents. Eventually the cramps and such got so bad, and I had lost such an enormous amount of weight, that my parents caught on and brought me into the doctor. This was probably one of the worst experiences I've had with a doctor. She told my parents to wait out in the hall, and proceeded to question me about anorexia. I was so furious and upset. She seriously thought that I was faking my symptoms:ymad:.

she finally referred me to a specialist where I underwent tests and such that eventually ended up in my diagnosis. At the time I was so happy to finally know what was wrong with me. I was put on prednisone, and for the first time gained a substantial amount of weight. Up until now I've experienced multiple flares, hospital visits, weight gain, weight loss, and I'm now at the point where my crohn's seems to be doing pretty well.

Although my body feels okay, I've still been feeling a bit down in the dumps lately do to poor body image and such, which I'm sure many of you can relate to. Because of my crohns, I look like I'm about 13 years old. My body is pretty disproportionate (long legs and arms). I'm 5'3" and currently weigh in at about 90 pounds. Not only am I thin because of my crohns, but I just naturally have a hard time putting on weight due to a fast metabolism. My mother is 5'11" and has always been very thin. I'm still growing, though I'm often worried that I won't reach my full potential. Because of these feelings I have a hard time forming relationships, and just overall feel like I've missed out on a lot of stuff normal kids get to experience.

But anyway, I'm so glad to have found this forum :). It's nice to see the stories of other people going through the same thing.
 
Hi Darby-

Welcome to forum. I am sorry to hear about the feelings you are having, but it all sounds so normal. Its hard enough feeling good about our bodies without crohn's. I have started finding myself declining what might normally be fun to me because of bathroom needs :(

Anyway, I am glad you are reaching out to this forum. You'll get through it!

oh- yeah- I live across the ferry in VT (small world).
 
Welcome, I'm sorry you're down but I'm glad you found the forum. My husband was reading over my shoulder at a post last night and declared "I'm glad you have this page". He's right, its just really nice to have a place where people can relate.
 
Hi Darby-

Welcome to forum. I am sorry to hear about the feelings you are having, but it all sounds so normal. Its hard enough feeling good about our bodies without crohn's. I have started finding myself declining what might normally be fun to me because of bathroom needs :(

Anyway, I am glad you are reaching out to this forum. You'll get through it!

oh- yeah- I live across the ferry in VT (small world).
It really is a small world! I actually go to Fletcher Allen hospital to see my gastroenterologist.

Thanks for the welcome, and yeah, it really is great to have people to reach out and relate to. :)
 
Welcome, I'm sorry you're down but I'm glad you found the forum. My husband was reading over my shoulder at a post last night and declared "I'm glad you have this page". He's right, its just really nice to have a place where people can relate.
Thanks for the welcome :). Finding this place has definitely made me feel a bit better.
 
Hello and welcome to the forum. Whilst some of what your feeling could be normal I would definetly ask your about having your vitamin B12 level checked, it is common for us crohnies to be deficient in this and a low level can affect how we are feeling both physically and mentally. What meds are you on for your crohns? I am pleased to hear that this is well at the moment. Also definetly have a good nosy around as there is a lot of helpful info and support here from a great bunch of people.

Glad you have decided to join

AB
xx
 
Hi Darby and welcome to the forum. I'm really glad you joined :)

As you probably know, the growth issues are often due to Crohn's related nutritional issues. Quite often young children will be put on elemental/enteral nutrition which not only helps with Crohn's Disease symptoms, but often helps them grow as well. You can research it here as it may be worth trying. It could be as simple as drinking a few Ensure you buy from the local Wal Mart per day.

Again, welcome to the forum :)
 
"It really is a small world! I actually go to Fletcher Allen hospital to see my gastroenterologist. "

Me too, as a matter of fact. Hope you are feeling ok.
 

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