Pasobuff.....my kids are probably kind of spoiled too, when I'm not feeling well (most of the time) they get easy, prepared dinners or frozen pizzas, I stopped beating myself up over the way they eat. I know they also play more video games and watch more tv than they should because there are times I just need to lie down, and I'll do whatever I have to so that they'll behave and not fight.
That being said, when we went out to dinner with my parents they commented on how well-behaved my kids were. Mom said my nieces and nephews won't even stay in their chair, they run around screaming (same ages). My kids know if they get up in a restaurant they better be going to the bathroom. They drive me crazy a lot of the time when I am home alone with them, but they understand that I am sick, and when I REALLY don't feel well, they can tell. And they will actually behave for me, because they understand when I'm sick what it means. My CD has actually made them better behaved kids, I think.
