Hi im a 40 yr old mum of 5 kids ive just joined this site this morning, i was diagnosed in 2001 when i was rushed into hospital with suspected appendicits an when they operated they found it was crohn's disease had spread onto my appendix from the bowel so i had a right helicolecotomy i think thats how u spell it sorry, i was in hospital for 10 days after my surgery i was put on pentasa but could not tolerate it so was put on infliximab infusions but reacted after the third infusion an was taken straight of it , so i was then put on mercaptopurine which i have been on 50 mg for about 4 yrs now i think sorry for not remembering everything at this ppresent moment but im really poorly again an have just had a colonoscopy done a week ago which was extremely painful for me at this present time due to the imflammation, i have suffered with diaorrhea since just before my operation in 2001 an have never had a normal bowel movement since i find this very embarrasing when u want to spend time with your friends or family socialising, if i eat out i have to be home within an hour of finishing the food.. well the results show im very poorly again an i have been given 2 options... 1) Operation or 2) new treatment Adalimumab i was asked if anyone in my family has had TB which i know there has been but to what extent i dont know enough so have asked my family for that info but would like to know what other people think, had alot of flare ups since my last op never had a full year where ive been great i miss quality of life with my family an friends an so in 2009 when i was poorly i told my last consultant i wanted a bag if they operated on me again as im missing out on so much of my childrens childhood an dont want to i did not need the op then as i left my ex partner it was stress makin my condition worse, i have moved to an area i have never been to before had to get a new consultant an now have this decision to deal with, i would really love to be able to go back into working but i know that is along way down the line for me at this present time in my life but im very positive just very tired and want to get well as quick as possible, Thank you too all who took the time to read my story an i look forward to reading other peoples on here as i think it can help to talk to others who suffer from this awful disease :ghug: