there is one particular video of a little girl who shows how to put it in very easily and matter of factly...made it look easy-peasy! I think the link is on the EEN thread on the therapy stickies at the top of the Parents of IBD section. Let him know that he can be in control and he can go as quickly or slowly as he needs. Tell him that if someone is trying to pressure him to hurry that he can tell them to back off. Tell him not to give up until he has got it down. It may take a few tries, but once he learns how, it's like riding a bicycle, he will get good at it. Don't be afraid of it - it's like eating a fat piece of spaghetti whole, only he's threading it down his nose instead of through his mouth. He may want to try swallowing a piece of spaghetti whole while holding one end in his fingers - it can be done. The nose part just helps him not to have to have something hanging out of his mouth all the time.