I have no wish to sit around discussing stomas with others, I want to spend as little time on it as possible and get on with my life, it is an incidental inconvenience, nothing more.
It's main purpose is to educate ostomates and create awareness and provide support. They are important resources. UOAA has a great newsletter called The Phoenix which new and veteran ostomates could really benefit from.
Yours is temporary. That is not the case for everyone. Some people REALLY need to sit around and discuss it with others.
You joined the forum to talk about your stoma, didn't you? Not everyone is comfortable talking on a forum.
Your experiences are particular to you, you said, but you do share them with others here, and we all benefit from each others experiences because we learn from them.
That's fine if it works for you, I wasn't saying they were pointless for everybody, I just couldn't see any value for me.
I really don't understsnd what joining one, if they exist, would be of benefit to me or anybody else.
Uhh, yes you did say that:
And that's what upset me.
I really don't understsnd what joining one, if they exist, would be of benefit to me or anybody else. I have all the. Information I need from my surgeon, stoma nurses, GP or the internet.
I have nothing to contribute to anybody else, except my experiences, but they are particilar to me. I have no wish to sit around discussing stomas with others, I want to spend as little time on it as possible and get on with my life, it is an incidental inconvenience, nothing more.