I do not know what I am doing with this whole reply thing...there are so many threads! So I am posting a reply/update about my13 year old with Crohn's. First of all, YES, I think it makes a difference how old a kid is in how they deal with Crohn's. My son is so embarrassed by things that it definitely factors into the equation. His "role" in school, his identity, perse, is wrapped up in being an excellent student...so going to school without enough energy to be that person is off the table at this point in time. As for exhaustion and figuring out what is normal, and what is Crohn's, I can comment on that. My middle son is fit as a fiddle and here is what is going on with him: He stays up too late and then has trouble getting up in the morning. It seems to be his natural "schedule". He is totally "out of it" some days...especially in the morning when he is waking up. When he sleeps in, not being able to get up despite his alarm clock, he usually seems to have grown! But he can put in a full day, and he can do his schoolwork, and he can exercise without a problem. Maybe a complaint, but not a problem. He has been tested and he is in excellent health.
As for my 13 yr old... We started him on Remicade a week ago. He gets his next infusion this week. He just was getting sicker and sicker as we went from Fall to Winter. No blood in his stool that we saw, just fatigue, cramps, reflux, headaches, etc. We had his blood tested and his inflammation and Crohn's numbers were up. So I threw in the towel. The kid has been SO good about his diet, but either we haven't rid of the one thing that is causing the problem, or who knows what, but we decided it was time to try Remicade. This has been too much stress for one little boy, and seeing as stress make Crohn's worse, we saw that we were working against ourselves. I am quite hopeful that Remicade will be the key to his return to good health. We are continuing on the no corn, no wheat, organic, low carb diet, and other suggestions of the Blood Type Diet System...but we are going to allow in some foods, like some cheese every once in a while, if we can get him feeling well again on the Remicade.