Hey all,
Not really a question as such, just interested in people's experiences and thoughts.
So i have been single for about a year now, whilst waiting for my diagnosis of Crohns I had a 4yr relationship fall apart (very long story) and I think somewhat I blame the illness for that, I now realise I dodged a bullet so that's something i guess lol
I find myself very conflicted, some days I wish I had that special someone in my life, especially this time of year and as I find myself approaching 30 with the majority of my friends settling down and starting families - I do feel lonely and that I'm missing out. On the flip side some days I'm so grateful I can go home close the door and not have to worry about anyone but my self (sounds horrifically selfish i know, but after a long day at work mixed with feeling rubbish i see it as a bit of a luxury!)
I know that lately I have been dealing with low self esteem and I'm sure this stems from there but I just feel like I now have so much baggage and wonder how someone would cope taking it all on - I'm not always the ray of sunshine I once was!!!
So yeh really just wondering about people's stories (good and bad) of dating and starting relationships post diagnosis, Or Is it even really that different?!
Best wishes ☺
Not really a question as such, just interested in people's experiences and thoughts.
So i have been single for about a year now, whilst waiting for my diagnosis of Crohns I had a 4yr relationship fall apart (very long story) and I think somewhat I blame the illness for that, I now realise I dodged a bullet so that's something i guess lol
I find myself very conflicted, some days I wish I had that special someone in my life, especially this time of year and as I find myself approaching 30 with the majority of my friends settling down and starting families - I do feel lonely and that I'm missing out. On the flip side some days I'm so grateful I can go home close the door and not have to worry about anyone but my self (sounds horrifically selfish i know, but after a long day at work mixed with feeling rubbish i see it as a bit of a luxury!)
I know that lately I have been dealing with low self esteem and I'm sure this stems from there but I just feel like I now have so much baggage and wonder how someone would cope taking it all on - I'm not always the ray of sunshine I once was!!!
So yeh really just wondering about people's stories (good and bad) of dating and starting relationships post diagnosis, Or Is it even really that different?!
Best wishes ☺