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Hi! I'm hoping to get some advice about possibly getting my first surgery for crohn's. I was diagnosed with crohn's in january 2013 and i've been on humira, remicade and pretty much everything else. Nothing has worked. I've never had problems with blood or diarrhea, but mostly just the stabbing pain in my ileum, and weight loss. I recently was admitted to the hospital and they put in a drain to drain an abscess that had formed from my small intestine rupturing, which is still draining three weeks later. My surgeon wants to do the pre-op surgery stuff in two days but i don't know if I'm ready to get surgery! I'm only 27 and I'm worried about having to get further surgeries down the road, constantly having diarrhea when I dont have that problem now, and all of the added complications. I can't seem to make up my mind. My husband and I are looking to have kids in the next few years and I know you have to be in remission to do so. And it would be nice to possibly eat vegetables and fruits in whole form again. I've read that people are glad they got surgery and couldnt believe they didnt do it sooner, but right now with the drain in I dont have any pain in my ileum, so its hard for me to say yes to surgery. I just dont want to trade one problem for a bigger problem if i do get it. But if they take the drain out maybe the abscess will come back and I will be at square one. So many what ifs! Any advice would be wonderful!