She was diagnosed maybe a year ago, and it is pretty severe, dr said worst he has ever seen, her colon looked like black tar when they did a scope of it. She is in a flare now, and not sure what meds, but they had her on a generic that she said didn't work, and she needed one that is around $125 US a month. They want her to do some sort of blood infusion, but her insurance won't pay for it. I don't think much is helping her right now.
My mom is in down south, I am around 1300 miles/2100km north of her, so I can't be there much, as well as unemployed now, so money is very tight.
She hasn't had any surgeries, not sure what they can really do being I don't know the nature of the disease. She has active bleeding, bad mouth sores, bad headaches, diarrhea often, bad nausea, and bad abdominal pain. She is coping with the Darvocet (I think also called propoxyphene in UK) now, best guess the D100 dosage and taking more than prescribed dosage to get the pain under control. She doesn't feel that the drs listen when you tell them you are in pain. I am not happy she is taking such a high dose, the Tylenol/acetaminophen dose with that many pills a day (around 8) is over the 4 grams a day limit and pushing lethal levels (6 grams+ in a 24 hr period). I am angry they put acetaminophen in everything. The drug companies NEED to stop, they need to realize people WILL and DO overdose on it, fact of life, they are going to, and they are going to get too high levels of it and make the liver toxic. And people don't know they are even doing it. I am mad over that. It is a drug that is out of control completely. People don't understand that it is in everything from cold meds to pain killers to headache relief.
I am trying to get my mom to call the dr and get something different that works better. She has some oxy-codone/OxyContin, she takes with the Darvocet when she is really bad. I don't like her mixing these strong meds at all.
She is on a diet, but I don't know if she has one that really works well for her. She can't seem to eat much of anything. If you have diet recommendations, that would be great.
She is in pretty bad shape over this. It seemed to come up suddenly in her mid 60's, but after talking to her and my dad, I wonder if she has had some form of it since her 20's, but never diagnosed. Extreme stress all her life. She has had ulcers since she was young. She was taking (some years ago) 1600mg Ibuprofin on an empty stomach before bed nightly, as well as other pain meds like vicodin (hydrocodone). Bad for the colon/GI tract.
She has been on pain pills for years for back issues. So many of these drugs have such bad side effects on the colon/GI tract.
Thanks so much DustyKat, I will dig around and see what I find. It is such an out of control situation for me, and when i find out all the pain meds she is on and the overdose of them I get so concerned. And somehow the drs all prescribe more. The drs should be monitoring this so it doesn't get out of control like this.
Hi EyesofThunder and :welcome:
I'm so sorry to hear about your Mum. I'm not familiar with the pain meds your Mum is taking but I'm sure there will be others along from the US that can help out with that.
I guess the thing I would want to know is where is your Mum at with her disease and why is she in so much pain?
I am assuming she is in a flare so what meds is she taking to bring things under control? Are they helping at all with the symptoms?
Has your Mum had any surgeries? Is she on any diet?Please stick around and have a browse through the forums, if you have any questions just ask away and we will do our best to help out, nothing is TMI!
I hope your Mum can get things under control and she is surrounded by a good GI and health workers. You must be so worried, do you live with your Mum or close by?
Take care, :hug:
Dusty