Hi my son was in a very similar situation 2 years ago,(aged 14)...our world fell apart...unfortunately during the initial scope to see what was going on, his bowel perforated as they tried to get in as it was so damaged and in a
poor state,this resulted in a major repair by lapro surgery. As his weight was only 30kgs we had to wait for him to recover from that surgery and get stronger again(7 months on Ng tube feeds overnight plus azathioprine and infliximab) but knew within three months that this meant more surgery, as there was lots of scarring.He had a right hemicolectomy (illium and valve removed) once his weight hit 50kgs. He has never looked back since that surgery, infact one week later he wanted to go back to school as he felt so brilliant! he started to grow and has not stopped yet! almost 6 feet tall and 65kgs now,full of life like he should be. I was terrified but it turns out you have to trust the professionals to know what they are doing and if you have any doubt ask for a second opinion. It will get better! trust me:ghug: