Welcome-
My son was dx at age 7 so I can relate.
AS far as meds for life... well science is always changing and you just go with the best info you have at the time.
some facts to know
The younger the age of dx ( young is considered 15 years old--bTW
in the gi world)
typically the more severe the disease course.
Meds are needed to try and reduce the inflammation as fast as possible and keep the inflammation down for as long as possible.
THis gives your child the best chance for keeping the majority of his gut for as long as possible.
SOme "natural " treatments would be EEN -
basically formula only(medical grade - peptamen jr) -no foods for 6- 12 weeks
this is used by some instead of prednisone .
EEN only induces remission - it does not work as maintenance -
most ibd kids need a maintenance drug
some gi's start with pentasa but most consider that equivalent to giving aspirin for a brain tumor ( not going to hurt but definitely not going to help much either)
most start on a pred or een course at the same time as
a 6-mp or Imuran type drug
two reasons for this
pred or een gets down the inflammation
at the same time 6-mp slowly gets into the system( it takes 3-6 months to work)
so by time your child is off the EEN or pred the 6-mp is starting to kick in.
IT is hard at the beginning
take time for your self to grieve
IT took us about a year to come to terms with it.
hugs