Hi,
My sister-in-law was diagnosed with Crohn's, ulcerative colitis and IBS three years ago. She and my brother-in-law (my husbands brother) have been married for five years and have two children. It was a depressing and worrying time for both of them until her condition was finally diagnosed. She is on all sorts of medication (I don't know the names) and has had her condition under control for a couple of years now with only a few flare ups thankfully. As a family we are all supportive of her, but two months ago, out of the blue she informed my brother-in-law she wanted to end their relationship, it was going nowhere and she was bored. Two weeks after that she said she was sorry, could they go back as they were to which my brother-in-law agreed, then the next day she said she was wrong, it's best they stay as friends. This has happened twice more since apparently, it's as if she can't make up her mind?
My brother-in-law was devastated, he doesn't know which way is up at the moment, their marriage has always been happy, at least he and the rest of us thought so. However, when he was talking to my husband and I, we wondered if either her condition or the medication she is taking is causing mood swings? Can this happen with these conditions? My other sister-in-law (my husbands sister) doesn't want anything to do with her considering what she's putting my brother-in-law through, but I don't want to judge the poor woman if she can't help these mood swings if indeed that's what the problem is. All advice would be gratefully received, thank you.
My sister-in-law was diagnosed with Crohn's, ulcerative colitis and IBS three years ago. She and my brother-in-law (my husbands brother) have been married for five years and have two children. It was a depressing and worrying time for both of them until her condition was finally diagnosed. She is on all sorts of medication (I don't know the names) and has had her condition under control for a couple of years now with only a few flare ups thankfully. As a family we are all supportive of her, but two months ago, out of the blue she informed my brother-in-law she wanted to end their relationship, it was going nowhere and she was bored. Two weeks after that she said she was sorry, could they go back as they were to which my brother-in-law agreed, then the next day she said she was wrong, it's best they stay as friends. This has happened twice more since apparently, it's as if she can't make up her mind?
My brother-in-law was devastated, he doesn't know which way is up at the moment, their marriage has always been happy, at least he and the rest of us thought so. However, when he was talking to my husband and I, we wondered if either her condition or the medication she is taking is causing mood swings? Can this happen with these conditions? My other sister-in-law (my husbands sister) doesn't want anything to do with her considering what she's putting my brother-in-law through, but I don't want to judge the poor woman if she can't help these mood swings if indeed that's what the problem is. All advice would be gratefully received, thank you.