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Hey all :)

I hope everyone's been well (as well as possible) - I haven't been on this forum for quite a while now because since starting Infliximab/Remicade my ulcer healed up nicely and I was completely healthy.

I was doing really well health-wise and then at the end of February I decided to take a risk and quit my job in customer services to try and get a job in PR in London. I was amazingly lucky and despite not having another job to go to when I handed my notice in, I managed to secure an internship at a PR agency in Notting Hill just two weeks later.

I ended up having two weeks to sort out where I was going to live and pack and everything else, and left my old job on the Friday and started my new job on the Monday. Unsurprisingly it was quite an upheaval for me - I get up at about 6:15 in the morning, commute one train and the tube, work 9am-6pm, then don't get home until after 7pm. For the first few weeks I had insomnia and was getting maximum 5 hours a night, sometimes only 3 or 4 hours, and as a result I was constantly exhausted and stressed and like a zombie at work. I was also really lonely at home as there was never anyone in and I was eating pretty badly too.

So up until last week the first four weeks I really wasn't doing my body any favours! Thankfully, last week everything sort've fell into place - I slept fine, been eating really well, made new friends, even met a bloke! I'm much happier and I've promised myself I'm going to adopt a healthy lifestyle and start exercising too.

Unfortunately, for whatever reason, my Crohns has decided to rear its ugly head again. My Consultant said I would need infusions every 3 months but its only been 2 months and I'm getting ulcers around my butt again :( pretty sore and they're discharging and it's all quite unpleasant. I'm really hoping it's just because I've been so tired, stressed and run down and now that I'm happier my health will be better too.

I've got an appointment on Tuesday which is great although annoying as I'm already having to take time off work for health reasons and I've only been there 5 weeks. Also, I'm wondering about how to talk to my new love interest about my Crohns. We've only been out a few times but things are moving pretty quickly and I do need to talk to him about it because it will effect things in our relationship.

So yeah, it's a mix of good and bad, I'm just wondering whether the relationship between stress and Crohns disease means things will get better from now on, or whether this stupid illness will keep on getting worse :thumbdown:

Hannah
 
Welcome back :)

Yeh i would say the stress, lack of sleep and not eating properly would have contributed to the crohns (It would effect even normal people). I hope you get time to chill out and get back on track now
 
Hi Hannah,

I'm glad that you've been able to get on with life. I can only add more weight to the argument that stress tend to make Crohn's worse. Hopefully, when the stress is controlled and perhaps with more frequent treatments you'll soon be on top form.

As for the boyfriend, talk to him and explain some of the difficulties that you have to deal with. If he's worth the effort he'll be understanding and supportive. Things should move on at a pace that you're comfortable with.

Wishing you well.


Mark
 
Thanks guys :) I guess it just depends whether in my case Crohns is related to stress and being run down, if it is I might be lucky and get it under control. Here's hoping.
 
Sounds like you've been under a lot of stress which I can't imagine has helped things. Hope you get everything back under control soon Hannah!
x
 
Yeah it's good and bad at the same time! Love that I've got such an amazing job opportunity in an amazing city but it was quite an upheaval at first and I had such trouble sleeping. I'm going to speak to my Doc tomorrow about why he thinks it's flared up so soon and what I can do myself to prevent it happening in future.
 
Ahh nooo , bad news , hope appointment helps , nervous times having to tell new love but people are suprisingly understanding .. Good luck and well done on the fabby new job x x
 

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