Well, I am certainly new to all of this. I met my boyfriend a mere 4 months ago, introduced by an online site, decided to meet, and fell in love instantly, and now are battling a long distance relationship. He was diagnosed with Crohn's 2 years ago, and the severity has increased a lot since then. I was aware of his disease from the very beginning, not exactly knowing what it was completely, but very supportive. I've done my best as his girlfriend (and future fiance! yes, it's only been a short while, but when you know, you know! expecting a ring by the end of the year) to research Crohn's so I can be more informative, also being so far away from him for the time being, is very difficult because he will call me when he has flair ups and I feel so helpless when he is in pain and I can't be there to help. In preparing myself that this is going to be my life and my future, it's honestly a lot to take in. I want to be the best support system I can be! I've also been researching recipes I can make when we are together (we see each other for a week, once a month) etc. I guess all I am wanting is advice from those who support someone with Crohn's, advice from those with Crohn's on what is the best way someone can be a good support system etc. I am ready to learn anything I can to help my man, and be the best I can be for him! I realized right away that this disease doesn't claim who he is, it's just a part of him. And I want it to be a part of me. So advice? Thanks in advance! :ghug:
