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Hi all, we just got DS latest fecal calprotectin back and it went from 119 (last November) up to 200. He had his resection in 2021 and stopped his Remicade at that point. I left a message for his GI to see what to do next (I’m sure he’ll want to do a scope and DS will NOT want to do that).
The tricky thing is, he’s 24 years old now and I’m trying so hard to get him involved with making good decisions about his health and he pretty much refuses to acknowledge/participate. At what point do I let him “learn his lesson” when the lesson could be a very scary one? He’s on the spectrum but high functioning so it’s hard to get through to him because his thinking is very rigid.
I’m sure the GI will walk me through numbers but I don’t know too much about calprotectin so I thought I’d jump in here and see what others have experienced with levels. I also wanted to check in and see if anyone else has young adult kids and is transitioning to try to take more of a back seat to encourage them to step up. It’s so tough to let go when he’s not taking things seriously!
The tricky thing is, he’s 24 years old now and I’m trying so hard to get him involved with making good decisions about his health and he pretty much refuses to acknowledge/participate. At what point do I let him “learn his lesson” when the lesson could be a very scary one? He’s on the spectrum but high functioning so it’s hard to get through to him because his thinking is very rigid.
I’m sure the GI will walk me through numbers but I don’t know too much about calprotectin so I thought I’d jump in here and see what others have experienced with levels. I also wanted to check in and see if anyone else has young adult kids and is transitioning to try to take more of a back seat to encourage them to step up. It’s so tough to let go when he’s not taking things seriously!