Hi Nolan11, I see I was paged! My son is older and was diagnosed last year with moderate to severe crohn's and also has arthirtis due to the crohn's. He was 19 when diagnosed although he probably had it for about 5 years - simmering slowly in his intestines. He started showing signs probably in his mid teens but nothing too obvious. It is really good that you caught this early. I started to blame myself for not doing something sooner, as all parents do. I was blown away when I heard first of his arthritis (which was more apparent a couple years ago and took awhile to be diagnosed). The rheumatologist was actually the one who referred my son to a GI specialist and within a short time, we found out about the crohn's. I cried often - and then worried often. It does get better. I can say that for sure. Last year, he couldn't walk, bathe himself, and it was so painful to see. Then finding about the crohn's was the topping on the cake. And then came the treatment. Before treatment, he was getting a bit better in terms of his arthiritis as he had been doing physio 3 x a week, but after his first remicade infusion, he immediately felt better with both the arthritis and the crohn's. Adjustments to treatment had to be made a few times, but now he is at a higher dose and is doing well.
He is a young adult and I do still worry, but it's so much better now that I understand treatment now, and with the help of this site and these amazing parents (mostly moms), I found sanity. I read up everyday and am still learning. You will feel better. Your daughter is getting the care way earlier than my son did and this will prevent or delay worse things from happening.
Sometimes I worry and create a scene that isn't even reality. I used to think my son would never have a normal life but now he is working part-time for the summer (couldn't last year), driving (couldn't last year) - socializing (couldn't really last year), able to walk around campus to his classes ( couldn't last year) and much more.
Your daughter is so lucky to have you advocating for her. You will worry less and things will get better. I did cry more often for the first couple months and now I don't cry at all!
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