I just joined this site & I hope this is where I'm suppose to be to post my "questions?" If not please direct me & where I should go to post things! Thanks!
Hey everyone!
I first want to say in advance "thanks" to any & everyone who may be able to offer ANY TIPS OR ADVICE! I have been diagnosed with Crohn's since 1999, now 35 years old, I'm a single mom to a little 4 year old boy! I've had been in SEVER & I mean SEVER PAIN with every bowel movement for a few years now, so finally about 2 -1/2 weeks ago the GI doc said "let's do a lower scope, just to see why things are so painful!" So I went in for the procedure, the couldn't pass the scope up the anus because the "stricture" is so bad, so they stopped & referred me to colon & rectal surgeons.
I'm having a CT this evening or tomorrow, but surgery 90% sure on the 25 Th (next Tuesday) to remove my rectum, anus, close the hole-and accordening to CT whatever else needs to be removed, also of course I'll have either colostomy or ileostomy .
QUESTIONS:
How long does a surgery like this normally take?
How bad is the pain after? Scaling from 1 to 10 ? Lol
If the "close" your behind hole, will it be stitched inside or out?
How soon after surgery can u put on "regular" cloths? And what type of cloths would you ladies recommend, like pj's with shirt/thin type pants or just long one piece gowns? Underwear?
Please tell me things that will be helpful while at the hospital, because doctor said a week to 10 days! I know my OWN pillow is a MUST! Lol
And iPhone
Are there certain things I should prepare here at home, for when I come back ? Like hmm where I'm going to dress/clean my incision? Maybe this would be a good excuse to clean off all my cluttered 8-9 ft bathroom counter top lol, like make a side just for where my "ostomy/ileostomy" supply's will be?
And I guess right now last thing I can think of (but I'm SURE I have 20 other questions) did anyone have a home health nurse come to their home after they went home, for a week-two-month, just to help them "adjust" & "teach" & "check" on everything? Cause honestly I don't think I can come home & just do it "alone!" I want a nurse & some "support" while I change the "bag" & "clean" everything ! Am I crazy!?
I'm more depressed & all ready feeling alone than ever in my life! I was home schooled from 6 Th grade till I dropped out, got a job worked a year, met my ex we were together 3 years (he owned a gas station, this was when I was really sick) but I worked "managed/trained" there the 3 years we dated & then we broke up. So I've had two serious relationships since then & had my son. But I am on disability, can't work & so I have "NO FRIENDS!" Honestly, I can't name a single female/male friend to call like normal friends I guess would (from what I've seen in movies) and talk about their bad day, good day or cry because a guy hurt your feelings . I don't have anyone to go out to eat with or shopping with. It always, always hits me HARDER when I'm in the hospital for some reason. I guess because I see other patients getting visitors, their phone is ringing or you pass by their room & it's so bright with color from the flowers someone brought them! Speaking of which that loser baby daddy, didn't even get me a single rose when I delivered our son! But I got the BEST thing in the world!!!
So I'm sure this will be a hard depressing hospital stay for me. If my oldest sister didn't live 20 hours away, I at least know she would fill in a gap/a void! But it sucks being THIRTY FIVE & not having ONE single friend! I mean damn everyone has friends. But I guess this is the price I've paid for being sick, on disability haven't been able to work in 7-8 years to be out in "public" to meet people! But THANK GOD I HAVE BOTH MY PARENTS & my 4 year old. My parents are getting old now & can't do what they use to do. I know my parents or one of them will be there when I go in for surgery (cause one has to put my baby on the bus for school) & be at the hospital as much as they can, but their aging sweet, loving hands ( 72 years old & 68 both in bad health) will be FULL seeing to my son while I'm in the hospital .
I'm sorry for writing so much! I'm sure no one has even read down this far anyways! Lol I'm just feeling all ready lonley, nervous, trying to figure out what to expect & wishing I had just "one" "true" friend on days like today & days like when I'm going to be in the hospital to come keep me company or call & ask how I am or surprise me by sending me flowers , like other friends do. But someone The Lord I guess one day will send a friend & maybe that friend will happen to be my future "husband" & step father to my little boy! Never know what The Lord has planned !
One more question & I PROMISE to SHUT UP LOL!!!!
Are there other places like this "discusion" group to post questions ? Because I posted a question a few weeks ago & only got it was either ONE OR TWO replies ONLY!!!!
And I've noticed with many other people posting questions here on "inspire" their question(s) don't either get replies at all or one or two.
PS: if anyone wants to answers my questions u can E-mail me @ [email protected]
I would be so grateful !!!! GOD BLESS & Happy holidays to everyone !
Elisha Foster/Cajun raging down in LoUiSiAnA! Yew haw!!! oo:oo:
Hey everyone!
I first want to say in advance "thanks" to any & everyone who may be able to offer ANY TIPS OR ADVICE! I have been diagnosed with Crohn's since 1999, now 35 years old, I'm a single mom to a little 4 year old boy! I've had been in SEVER & I mean SEVER PAIN with every bowel movement for a few years now, so finally about 2 -1/2 weeks ago the GI doc said "let's do a lower scope, just to see why things are so painful!" So I went in for the procedure, the couldn't pass the scope up the anus because the "stricture" is so bad, so they stopped & referred me to colon & rectal surgeons.
I'm having a CT this evening or tomorrow, but surgery 90% sure on the 25 Th (next Tuesday) to remove my rectum, anus, close the hole-and accordening to CT whatever else needs to be removed, also of course I'll have either colostomy or ileostomy .
QUESTIONS:
How long does a surgery like this normally take?
How bad is the pain after? Scaling from 1 to 10 ? Lol
If the "close" your behind hole, will it be stitched inside or out?
How soon after surgery can u put on "regular" cloths? And what type of cloths would you ladies recommend, like pj's with shirt/thin type pants or just long one piece gowns? Underwear?
Please tell me things that will be helpful while at the hospital, because doctor said a week to 10 days! I know my OWN pillow is a MUST! Lol
And iPhone
Are there certain things I should prepare here at home, for when I come back ? Like hmm where I'm going to dress/clean my incision? Maybe this would be a good excuse to clean off all my cluttered 8-9 ft bathroom counter top lol, like make a side just for where my "ostomy/ileostomy" supply's will be?
And I guess right now last thing I can think of (but I'm SURE I have 20 other questions) did anyone have a home health nurse come to their home after they went home, for a week-two-month, just to help them "adjust" & "teach" & "check" on everything? Cause honestly I don't think I can come home & just do it "alone!" I want a nurse & some "support" while I change the "bag" & "clean" everything ! Am I crazy!?
I'm more depressed & all ready feeling alone than ever in my life! I was home schooled from 6 Th grade till I dropped out, got a job worked a year, met my ex we were together 3 years (he owned a gas station, this was when I was really sick) but I worked "managed/trained" there the 3 years we dated & then we broke up. So I've had two serious relationships since then & had my son. But I am on disability, can't work & so I have "NO FRIENDS!" Honestly, I can't name a single female/male friend to call like normal friends I guess would (from what I've seen in movies) and talk about their bad day, good day or cry because a guy hurt your feelings . I don't have anyone to go out to eat with or shopping with. It always, always hits me HARDER when I'm in the hospital for some reason. I guess because I see other patients getting visitors, their phone is ringing or you pass by their room & it's so bright with color from the flowers someone brought them! Speaking of which that loser baby daddy, didn't even get me a single rose when I delivered our son! But I got the BEST thing in the world!!!
So I'm sure this will be a hard depressing hospital stay for me. If my oldest sister didn't live 20 hours away, I at least know she would fill in a gap/a void! But it sucks being THIRTY FIVE & not having ONE single friend! I mean damn everyone has friends. But I guess this is the price I've paid for being sick, on disability haven't been able to work in 7-8 years to be out in "public" to meet people! But THANK GOD I HAVE BOTH MY PARENTS & my 4 year old. My parents are getting old now & can't do what they use to do. I know my parents or one of them will be there when I go in for surgery (cause one has to put my baby on the bus for school) & be at the hospital as much as they can, but their aging sweet, loving hands ( 72 years old & 68 both in bad health) will be FULL seeing to my son while I'm in the hospital .
I'm sorry for writing so much! I'm sure no one has even read down this far anyways! Lol I'm just feeling all ready lonley, nervous, trying to figure out what to expect & wishing I had just "one" "true" friend on days like today & days like when I'm going to be in the hospital to come keep me company or call & ask how I am or surprise me by sending me flowers , like other friends do. But someone The Lord I guess one day will send a friend & maybe that friend will happen to be my future "husband" & step father to my little boy! Never know what The Lord has planned !
One more question & I PROMISE to SHUT UP LOL!!!!
Are there other places like this "discusion" group to post questions ? Because I posted a question a few weeks ago & only got it was either ONE OR TWO replies ONLY!!!!
And I've noticed with many other people posting questions here on "inspire" their question(s) don't either get replies at all or one or two.
PS: if anyone wants to answers my questions u can E-mail me @ [email protected]
I would be so grateful !!!! GOD BLESS & Happy holidays to everyone !
Elisha Foster/Cajun raging down in LoUiSiAnA! Yew haw!!! oo:oo: