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kello82 said:
+1 on katies comment....twas a sad sad day when my glitter jeans became no longer glittery in the wash.
i miss glitter jeans. is 19 too old for glitter jeans??
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I say no!!! Wear what makes you feel happy!!! Glitter on Kell.....glitter on!!!
 
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Punch her in the jaw Mike.

I hate when I lose 2.3 million in chips playing poker because I play crap hands haha.
 
LOL @ jilli!!
hahha i love the sparkly kello!!

i may just steal that and make it my siggy or something.....ive never had one before
 
I hate the fact that my fat cat just jumped up onto my kitchen table and puked on it.

I hate how much Kim looooves Cigna (j/k, Kim :) Your post cracked me up!)
 
LMFAO :ylol2:

LHC (Lime Helmet Cat) is on his way to burn Cigna down. I think that's what he said. Or, it could've just been a meow. Who knows.
 
When you try to talk to someone, with whom you are locked in a tiny room for an hour with during your break, & they do not even respond! RUDE!!!!
 
When Shaw's AND Hannaford AND Stop & Shop AND Market Basket don't have my Veggie Patch stuff so I have to go 25 minutes away to Big Y on a "maybe" to see if they have it!!!!!
 
People who drive slow in the left lane (or right lane for those in UK). They should have their licenses revoked.
 
Even worse Fenway, people who pull out in front of you and don't get up to speed so you have to slam on your brakes.

Oh .. wait .... AND when people enter a freeway at 30 mph. Um ..... you're gonna get us all killed ...MOVE. Ok, I'm done.
 
When my cold medicine decides that my nose needs to drain @ 4:30am!!!

Working with ALL friggin' women & all of us are PMSing, but 2 LOL
 
fenway1971 said:
People who drive slow in the left lane (or right lane for those in UK). They should have their licenses revoked.
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hmm, the other side of that coin...when the speed limit's 65 and I'm going 71 in the left lane and there's a guy that believes erroneously that the speed limit doesn't apply in the left lane and wants to go 90 and rides two inches from my ass flashing his brights and peeping and bitching. It's times like that that I wish I had a crap eject button in the car that I can press and crap all over his mustang/SUV/4X4/convertible/etc.
 
i hate boys. except the ones on here. and DEFINITLY except a special one on here ;)
but other than that, i hate boys. and i hate that i like them.
stupid boys....
 
At the moment I hate not having a job. I was made redundant at the end of June and since then it's just been impossible. I've sent CVs everywhere, had a few interviews but just not actually got anywhere. Jobseekers allowance is no where near enough to live on, I get the same amount in a week as I used to make in a day!
 
kello82 said:
i hate boys. except the ones on here. and DEFINITLY except a special one on here ;)
but other than that, i hate boys. and i hate that i like them.
stupid boys....
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Ha, Marks a "boy"....poor Mark...:(

I hate worrying about my liver...I go all my life as a non-drinker, and now have to worry about my liver because of Crohn's....:ymad:
 
My tests came back regarding my Immuran dosage, showing something I never had to worry about beyond GI health: a suffering organ. So now what do I pick, make my colon worse, or my liver worse. :(

I've never been "unhealthy" like this, I never used to get sick, get headaches, I had pristine cholesterol and energy, slept like a rock, I ate right and worked out...I was healthy as a horse. Sure I was slightly pudgy as a nerd in late high school and for some of college as my metabolism slowed before I worked out, but I still wasn't like this worrying about my body all the time. I think that's why Crohn's has made me so angry at life, the sick irony of it, and why I wrote 2 poems about it..."Karma has betrayed us all" is a line in there....

For so many years, all my life I turned down drinks and beer and took the insults from that squarely on the chin from other guys, and thought my liver/body would thank me for it. I didn't need it, I can make everyone laugh without it. Now I have Crohn's and trashed it from a stupid drug within a matter of months at high doses trying to battle this disease the best way science can. I can only hope all my years of care for it will help it bounce back as it's a resilient organ.

I hate that I don't get to see Mike put that neighbor's ball sack in the hyperbaric chamber for stealing your sign. A-hole.
 
I hate when people who believe in something take their belief too far and end up belittling other members. They can :kissgrits:
 
I hate people that say 'You're so lucky to be so skinny!'

I am sick dammit!! and would rather be skinny for good reasons other than that my insides are not well!

Last time someones aid this I asked if they would like to swap intestines - that shut them up!
 
My mom said to me the other day, "you're so skinny... bitch." And laughed. Laughed. Yeah... it's SO funny because...?

Then I went to the gyno and HE said, "you've lost weight." I said, "yeah, about 30 pounds." He said, "what's your secret?!?" My answer: "Colitis." He shut up after that.
 
Its annoying isn't it!!??

I had a massage therapy client last week who was quite a 'large' fellow. We were chatting about his concerns about this and exercise etc and he said something like 'You would hardly have to exercise would you, being so skinny,' so i told him I had just been diagnosed with Crohns, explained what it was and that the skinniness wasn't necessarily a good thing and he said in a hopeful tone:

'Cool, is it contagious?'

Can you believe it?? I even said it would be better to be fat and be healthy and he said he'd rather have Crohns! Isn't it sad how much we focus on thinness in society that a person would even think of saying something like that?
 
ugh i hear ya sistas.
i was looking for high calorie booster stuffs in GNC once and the guy was like "for who?" i said "me". "why would YOU wanna gain weight??"
um, bc im 80 lbs and i have no ass.
i told him i was really sick and he was just like uhhh....
 
Yeah, on the same talk of weight, but opposite spectrum. How about when you go to the doctor's office and once again you've gained weight. Then he starts talking about Crohn's and their symptoms and such (goes into weight loss issues and such), and then looks at me. Yeah Doc, I'm fat and I have Crohn's.

Not sure which is better.

When you are skinny due to Crohns the doctors actually give suggestions and help (the doctors that understand that is) but when you're overweight with Crohn's they want to know what is wrong with you and lecture that you need to eat better and work out and on and on. I have asked 2 different doctors now why I have been gaining weight and neither one could come up with an answer except "you need to diet and exercise." That didn't answer the question, thanks.
 
Geez Kello you must be super thin!!

I work in kilos here but just changed my scales over to see what the pounds equivalent is.

So I am approx 110 pounds and 5'5"

And I am SMALL. I buy kids jeans for 12 year olds. You must be teeny tiny!!

misscris - better to have mopre weight than less I reckon. It will give you more reserves for when things get bad. My theory is whatever weight you FEEL most healthy at is a good weight.

I reckon I'm about 115 or 120 max.

och why do us girls always have to be so paranoid about our weight??

Its funny because while I have been needing to put a bit of weight on, it feels somehow wrong. Like we have bene programmed to think about losing weight.
I will admit that now that I'm up nearly 3 kg ( probably 7-8 pounds) it is making me 'uncomfortable' even though I am still lighter than I was before getting sick.

There, for me anyway, is some strange satisfaction in being skinny. I don;t like that I have moments of feeling that way, but that's the society we live in. I actually enjoyed getting thinner, despite already being thin, but it was when my boobs (apparantly my best asset) disappeard that it really started to bother me. Thank goodness they are back!! YAY
 
My only issue with it all is that nobody can explain to me or even try to explain why I'm gaining this weight. I gained a lot of weight in a very rapid pace unexplainably. I kept telling my friend the same thing, "I have reserve weight" and she laughed and agreed, but still odd circumstances. <shrug> oh well. I am what I am.
 
misscris said:
My only issue with it all is that nobody can explain to me or even try to explain why I'm gaining this weight. I gained a lot of weight in a very rapid pace unexplainably. I kept telling my friend the same thing, "I have reserve weight" and she laughed and agreed, but still odd circumstances. <shrug> oh well. I am what I am.
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Good, don't change!
 
shazamataz said:
Geez Kello you must be super thin!!

I work in kilos here but just changed my scales over to see what the pounds equivalent is.
And I am SMALL. I buy kids jeans for 12 year olds. You must be teeny tiny!!
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yup im Tiny Kello!
ok so i rounded down to 80, 83 was actually my lowest weight ever.
i THINK normal for me is 105-115 or so.
and FAT is 120-125.
right now im chillin around 94.
my peak was 124 and my boobs were HUGE!!! from A to DD in a couple months (im very proud of that accomplishment btw :D)
it happened so fast, people probly thought i got implants.

ANNYways.....how do you buy kids jeans?? to me they dont really fit right. like, the butt area is too saggy, they are always too short, and they arent cut slim enough, crotch too long....just like, not cut for a more adult figure. even though im a stick adult lol.

jean shopping is hell, once in 0435239 pairs i find a pair that fits me. size 00 in most stores is STILL too big. ugh its so frusterating.
ive taken to wearing big jeans (by this i mean size 0) with a pair of shorts under.
hey, slouchy syle is in right? the 'boyfriend cut' :)

i know what you mean about liking your thin figure sometimes. i actually do like my stomach, hip area a bit. at least ive a got a flat tummy (that is somewhat toned for some strange reason, maybe lots of pooping is a workout?), and you know how models have those hipbones that stick out a bit and they have their jeans sit right across them? i can rock that look baby ;)
just dont look at the rest of me.....=/ gah!
if only stretch marks, leaky butt stains, stomas, abdominal scars, ribs showing, pale skin, swollen cheek, PG scars and bruises were sexy too. id be one hot supermodel!
 
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I am sure you are still gorgeous kello, even with the butt leakage etc!

Kids jeans arectrial and error, sometimes they are too short on me too. The bum thing is no prob as I have no hips anyway - built like a boy in the bottom end.

I am findinf there is one shop in town that seems to make grown up ones to suit me - size 6 here which i think is a 2 in US? I think these ones are made to fit asians who also have a tendency to be small hipped, so all good for me!

DD boobs are fantastic - i used to have those too! however i hope they don;t keep growing too much if nothing else does now or will be boobs on a stick - not pretty at all!

Och, too fat, too skinny, us girls are NEVER happy!!!
 
kello82 said:
if only stretch marks, leaky butt stains, stomas, abdominal scars, ribs showing, pale skin, swollen cheek, PG scars and bruises were sexy too. id be one hot supermodel!
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Hey .. I still think you're hot. :)

and I'm pretty sure at least one other person does too. ;)
 
Her toes (or talk of them) are around here somewhere...I THOUGHT pics were going to show up sometime so you may be able to see her toes too!

Kello: A to DD?! Whoa. I went from A to C in a few months. I am EXACTLY your size miss kello, fat in the 120s and too thin below 100...my highest, 126 I was a C, and man, I have NEVER had boobs that big, and it was crazy! Made up for the fat around my middle--my coworkers couldn't believe their eyes, they didn't look in mine anymore, weird. And yeah I agree, still gorgeous dear!

Oh, and I hate colonoscopies, on my fourth day of not feeling my norm....bloated, full, leaky, bloated, full, constipated more than usual...I actually hate more than colonoscopies but I will leave that for another thread ;).

Sorry Jillian...:(....love those babies with all you've got.
 
It's opposite for me like some other guys. I loose "weight" and can't workout, drop like 45 pounds 2 months time without a gym, and people think I'm on my deathbed because I have no shape, "girl arms" and a pale look about me. That and I appear like I'm about to fall over any second. I hate how I tell people how horrid it was to lose so many years of progress working on fitness goals and it's gone in a few weeks time, and all they can think about is how cool it would be to loose "pounds" and not care about what kind of "pounds" they are or how they were lost. I've had the "contagious" comment before, makes me furious. It's so hard to regain lost progress twice after losing years of it, but I hate Crohn's bad enough just to spite it by not allowing defeat. So to that, I guess I can relate, I want to have my "shape" back, just like you women want your "shape" back...

As a male, I'll chime in that "weight" in women is not what some women seem to think it is...I find "supermodels" to be quite nasty, to be frank, because they have as many curves as a straight line, and have bones popping out all over. People like Kelly and the likes have a reason, they have had ordeals that were life-saving/changing....It's not that these "models" have it from Crohn's either (in my scenario, under this assumption), it's because "they" or the fashion industry, or whoever, thinks it's attractive to purposely get like that. Think Kiera Knightly or Angelina, they're disgusting...now think Scarlette Johannson or Kate Winslet... they're drool-worthy...the difference? THE CURVES... The butt, the hips, the breasts, the figure eight, hourglass, etc...

I'm not trying to say that it's necessary to be "attractive", because I know some of us (like me) just can't keep weight on temporarily and it all drops at our worst before we can bounce back...you women often miss your curves (I miss my muscle), and then get weight back and often you women feel fat. Again, getting sick and losing weight is an exception, because it's not your standard/normal situation, it's an exception and normally temporary, and lovely personalities more than compensate. You know it's not what you want, and didn't have a choice, just like with me, I don't want it to happen, but due to illness, my muscle/your curves are fleeting. The difference is supermodels usually have a choice (not all the time though), and believe it's sexy to be a stick, when most guys dislike that.

What's a problem is when a female is convinced that some stick-like figure is attractive because celebrity X only weighs X lbs.... and to that whole myth/belief, I ask you this: When you see adult film stars, what assets or shape do they have that makes them candidates for those movies? Who are the one's at Hooters restaurants bringing food to tables? Curves are sexy, and so is personality, and if a woman is missing both and assumes her body-like-a-board is sexy, it's just actually ugly. You women have personality left and know you will get your curves back, just wait it out. :)
 
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katiesue1506 said:
Well... I certainly have my curves back... thanks to prednisone... however I didn't really want them in my face. :)
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Ha! Oh those sexy prednisone curves. My co-workers thought I was pregnant one day. LOL.
 
katiesue1506 said:
Well... I certainly have my curves back... thanks to prednisone... however I didn't really want them in my face. :)
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I'm sure your cheeks have a voluptuous hourglass figure, and if not, at least one of your freckles does. And you've got peronsality. :)
 
Didn't benson say nice things about us poor skinny girls with great personalities??

Thanks benson, though I am new so you don't know me well. I DO have a great personality, SO I am told :)

And you are right about the whole model thing. It makes no sense at all to be so skinny on purpose - men don;t generally like that at all - what fun is there in snuggling up to a bundle of twigs??

Now that my boobs are coming back I just hope i donlt gte too many face curves to ruin it.

Someone may be able to tell me does weight gain increse as you taper pred? I have noticed that the last week and a half i've jumped up fast while it was slow going for the first few weeks. I still have 6 weeks to go and if I continue I will have to buy all new clothes! urg! just after I bought a few new super skinny items!
 
BWS said:
I'm sure your cheeks have a voluptuous hourglass figure, and if not, at least one of your freckles does. And you've got personality. :)
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Aww thanks...



for today I hate writing papers that require reading 100 pages in one week.

and I hate writing papers about immigration... all the literature out there is just a bunch of numbers strewn together at an angle that makes them win their argument. Statistics can be used to win any argument you want... just just have to play with the numbers a bit. BLAH
 
katiesue1506 said:
all the literature out there is just a bunch of numbers strewn together at an angle that makes them win their argument. Statistics can be used to win any argument you want... just just have to play with the numbers a bit. BLAH
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Exactly why my Public Speaking instructor said never to try to win an argument using statistics. Statistics can be twisted any way you want them to to either prove or disprove anything so aren't a reliable device for making a solid case. Yep, statistics should never be used or firmly relied upon to prove anything.

He also said that mentioning something three times in a speech is how you get a person to remember something you want them to remember. ;)

Or as a funny email once said, 52.4% of all statistics are made up on the spot.
 
i hate..... people who promise to ring me back by 10am yesterday & it's now 12.30pm today and i'm still waiting. grrr!
 
I hate when I'm just about to doze off to sleep and my bowels decide they gotta go NOW!
And the Calgon thing too.
 
I hate having to pee real bad and realizing after several moments of trying to find the snake hole, that I have my undies on backwards:confused2:
 
LOL how can yo not know you have your undies on backwards??!! didn;t they feel weird???

I hate that I am currently freaked out. I'd like some normalcy back PLEASE!
 
I hate stupid people - I seem to be surrounded by them where ever I go...I hate raw onions, most mainstream movies, books, magazines, tv, Crohns, of course, cell phones, racism, sexism, homophobics, the whores of consumerism, war and genocide, politicians, organized religion and its hypocracy, corporate America, the NRA, pro lifers, and spicy food...
 
shazamataz said:
LOL how can yo not know you have your undies on backwards??!! didn;t they feel weird???

I hate that I am currently freaked out. I'd like some normalcy back PLEASE!
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Not when your wearing thongs, they feel pretty normally wedged in there.
 
Pulling my back out of whack because of a kid @ school......lil f*cker!!! (Check out the love thread)
 
I hate bad manners and people that knowingly cause hurt. I hate mushrooms, courgettes, aubergines and cooked peppers and I hate people that have their health and fake sickness....damn you idiots! Oh and I also hate that I can't have a massage for 8 hours every day! :)

Um...that'll do for now! :)
 
Santos61198 said:
Here you go, Farm:

Courgette = zucchini

Aubergine = eggplant
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I knew them, I was talking about "knowingly" and "massage" LMAO
 
i hate.... doctors who obviously haven't read my notes or listened to a word i've said, the only thing they've heard was "Crohn's Disease"... then they ask.. have you moved your bowels today??? duh... i'd just told them i have an ileostomy. perfect answer - "yeah, it moves all the time, you wanna see?"

or "how many times do you move your bowels in a day?". ummm about 763 separate times, each lasting approx a nano second....


duh!!
 
Dingbat that gets to me too, sometimes I feel like I'm banging my head against a brick wall every time I go to the hospital lately!

At the moment I also hate the fact I'm in pain, not sleeping and wanting my sleeping pills and anti-depressants back but can't get a doctors appointment until next week. Weekend of hell for me!
 
I hate that I bought the wrong !^#&^#&%@&^)@*)!@(^#&*%(*&!*&@ color paint for the $@&%$@* garage door!
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I hate that my fantasy football team got crushed because my opponent had Drew Brees and the Philly Defense.
 
I hate that my whole class has to redo the "find 90 things you think are funny and take a picture" project because my teacher didn't like anyone's submissions. I had a hard enough time doing it the first time... now i gotta redo it with new pics.
 
dingbat said:
i hate.... doctors who obviously haven't read my notes or listened to a word i've said, the only thing they've heard was "Crohn's Disease"... then they ask.. have you moved your bowels today??? duh... i'd just told them i have an ileostomy. perfect answer - "yeah, it moves all the time, you wanna see?"

or "how many times do you move your bowels in a day?". ummm about 763 separate times, each lasting approx a nano second....


duh!!
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A nurse asked me after my surgery if my bowels had moved and I told her I'd wished the'd move to Kentucky...lol
 
I hate that I vomited on way into work this morning. Hope it's food poisoning and not crohn's rearing it's ugly head...
 
I hate that my brother waited 2 fucking weeks to put his poor sick dog down because he's selfish and stupid. Poor baby lost 30 pounds in those 2 weeks. I was called to his house @ 11pm last night to help him (I'm known as the family vet). I looked into Zeus' eyes as he lay dying, just kissing him, petting him, and telling him that he's a good boy. I'm gonna mis that dog so much :(
 
I hate people (mostly women but I have seen guys do it) who stick their feet out of the passenger side window of a car. I mean really, does anybody need to see your feet? Are your feet sweating so bad that you have to stick them out of the window? The floor setting of the AC isn't good enough? I don't stick my butt out of the window because I get swamp ass.

Just a thought
 

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